pure until marrage?

Question

If you are having thought about not staying pure until marriage. Then ask yourself this->
1. Why would I want to give up something that I will never get back to someone that I might not stay with for the rest of my life?
2. Why would I want to be seen as impure in the eyes of god and other people?
3. Why would I want to degrade myself to the level of another person who did not think about the consequences that it would have on them emotionally and physically?
4. Why would I take the risk of getting a STD or get pregnant?

The truth is that people that stay pure until marriage, it shows that they are strong and better those who did give into the sin of lust. It shows that they have the strength to not give into the demands and feelings of another person and that they can say no to things like that, because they know it is not right.
If you really love that person, you will not have premarital sex with him/her. It will only make the relationship worst. Most teens that do have premarital sex, say that they regret it and wished that they had waited. Almost all people that say that they loved each other and had sex for the first time because of that, did not stay together.

The truth is that people that stay pure until marriage, it shows that they are strong and better those who did give into the sin of lust. It shows that they have the strength to not give into the demands and feelings of another person and that they can say no to things like that, because they know it is not right.
If you really love that person, you will not have premarital sex with him/her. It will only make the relationship worst. Most teens that do have premarital sex, say that they regret it and wished that they had waited. Almost all people that say that they loved each other and had sex for the first time because of that, did not stay together.

My cousin had sex and he did not stay with his girlfriend. They were not even able to talk to each other after that day. For him, he kept on asking himself questions like- Was I good enough? How does she think of me now? Is she going to tell her friends?

Having sex is both a mental and physical thing. Both person that did it know that they are no longer pure. And for the girl- her hymen got ruptured (physical).

Your virginity is a very valuable thing and it should be cherished. It should go with someone that you know that you will stay with for the rest of your life. To give someone that on your wedding night will the best gift ever. It will cause that person to feel that you have kept it so long and that he/she what the person to get it. It will make your relationship much stronger and it will give you two something to brag about to your family and friends. Some people will look up to you.

If you want to be different and show that you are better than most people. If you want to follow god and make your parents proud. If you want be looked up too- be a role model. Stay pure until marriage, it is the only right way to have sex.

Remember: Abstinence until marriage is a choice, not a religion.

Answer 1

I'm 15 and I plan on keeping my virginity until I'm married. I know most teens say that but lose it before then... but I really mean it.

Answer 2

You have presented excellent information. I volunteer at a womens health and pregnancy center. I speak to many, many girls and women who have learned this information the hard way. We encourage abstinence.

Yes, abstinence until marriage is "boring, old fashioned, nobody does that anymore." This is why 80% of the sexually active girls out there will have at least one STD in their lifetime. This is why 80% of American women have HPV, many of whom will then get cervical cancer. This is why about 40% of babies born in the US are born out of wedlock.

Yes, marriage is "just a piece of paper." So is your high school diploma. So is your vehicle title. So is your mortgage. This piece of paper represents your willingness to commit to a permanent relationship that requires trust, fidelity, honesty, and maturity.

Yes, birth control protects you from pregnancy. Yes, condoms protect you from some STDs. What birth control does not protect is your reputation, your self-esteem, and, most importantly, your heart. I cannot count the number of pregnant women dumped by their boyfriends who have sat across from me in our Center and cried.

At my center I use the "sandwich analogy." A woman's body is like a sandwich. She wants to save the entire sandwich for the man she will spend the rest of her life with. Or does she want to give her husband a half-eaten sandwich and say, "Here, I've had sex with a dozen other guys, but you can have what's left."

Answer 3

first off no one is better then anyone else - second of why ar eyou juding people? god said leave the judging to him and to each of your reasons for not having sex

1. for the same reasons you would give it to someone who you will be with - sex is enjoyable and we are animals animals are meant to have sex

2 , as for god i dought he truly cares who sleeps with whom ( being preocciupied with the apocilipse and the rapest and murders and that sunday afternoon golf game...) and why should you worry what other people think of you ?

3 back to everone is equal thus you do not degrad your sel fby having sex

4 wear a condom,! this is why god made the guy who made condoms!

Answer 4

Well Brian A I applaud you for having good values! However, not everyone is like you and they will say to stop judging them, whatever happend happend, and that I couldn't resist or control my urges. one thing let to another.

So as messed up as the world is, I'm glad that you are still one of the sane ones.

Answer 5

I feel the same way. I am still pure and have no problem with it. It will happen when the time is right.

Answer 6

i do plan to wait until marrage but that doesnt mean anyone has the right to judge someone for his or her sexuality stop being so harsh geez..............god sees everyone equal and is the only one with the right to judge anyone

Answer 7

i just want my 2 points, i didnt bother to read pass the second paragraph

Answer 8

what if you never meet that special someone?