Females, spouses are whinny, and needy . Do they do their fair share in the home?

Question

The way many spouses whine and talk in here, you would think that they were carrying the world on their shoulders. In the meantime, their hubbies are working 8, 10 or more hours to bring home enough bacon to live. That muhla also allows the spouse to go to coffee clatches, shopping, and making herself pretty. Then she gets pissed off when he doesn't bring flowers, a card or forgets a birthday, or anniversary. Then she needs affection, not sex. Thanks. Like, I'm working all day, tired and she wants nonconsumptive loving. I'm going to bed! Tell me your opinion.

Answer 1

My opinion is that you are generalizing and projecting your experience with your spouse onto every other woman here. Personally, I make more money than my husband and both of us work hard. Remember that it was the two of you who decided to marry and probably a joint decision for her not to work; why the sour grapes now? You can renegotiate the work situation.

Answer 2

I'd say only a small percentage of people actually are right for marriage. Most are right for something else, and as you mentioned, the folks here are the right type to rant - guys and girls.

The type you're looking for is indeed out there.

Answer 3

your right most men work there asses off to try and give there hubby what they want when they want it.....and us women respect that

but as nice as the stuff you named off is....men have to also respect a women's emotional needs...

and sometimes yes all it takes is you surprising her with flowers...but it doesn't matter what you give her its the reasoning behind it....

all women want is for you to want to cuddle with them instead of maybe going out with friends some nights.... or maybe even asking her to sit down so you can give her a massage...

its not what you give her its showing her that you still care....

good luck