Have you ever been chatted up & in a situation where cheating could be on the cards.... & then thaught, do you know what my partner is worth a million compared to a afternoon of passion with someone else. just as they give you their number.
Or do you go for it..
2007-10-23 10:10:30 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years with my boyfriend. We found each other on a dating site (millionairematch.com/photo/bloger) and we have a 20 month old daughter together. He was with this other girl almost 15 years ago and supposely had a son. She does not let him see the child. At the time she found out she was pregnant she was with other men too. She put the blaim on him and he took responsibility. He pays child support like he is suppose too. They were not together when she found out she was pregnant. He tried to make things work with her for the sake of the baby. During the time they were together she left state and had another baby by another man. She had 7 men tested to figure who was the dad. She uses the child against him. He wants to see the child. We are even going to court. He makes to much to get a court appointed lawyer.
2007-10-23 15:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been on the wrong end of that choice meaning that I had the chance and I took it. YES I got caught and NO it wasn't worth it. Now as I look back I know I was immature and not the wife I should have been. But I'm also not afraid of admitting I was wrong if it will help someone else in their time of decision. I almost lost my husband and my children because of my foolishness. It had not happened before I was caught and nor has it happened after I got caught. I learned my lesson the first time. Does it make me a bad person? NO it makes me human and imperfect just like the rest of the world.
2007-10-23 10:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are considering it leads me to suspect that your relationship is not that strong. If it were, you wouldn't be asking this question. I say go for it since you have already done the deed in your mind. Just have enough respect of your partner to part ways with him before you slide into bed with someone else. Good luck.
2007-10-23 10:21:01 · answer #3 · answered by Steve F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the point in risking a lifelong relationship with your partner for one night of passion!? Ive been chatted up and its crossed my mind but I would never throw away what I have with my partner for the sake of one night - no matter how hot the guy is!! Also it shows you have no respect for your patner!
So its a no for me!
2007-10-23 10:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by lazycat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never even chatted up with another person and thought about cheating. I know in my heart that there is no one else worth my time but him.
2007-10-23 10:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes that has happened to me i thought about it and i never went through with it thank goodness because it would have shattered my world and hurt the person who means the most to me. Definitely not worth it in my opinion. Temptation will always be there, it is up to each individual person how they react to it and the potential consequences of those actions should always be considered
2007-10-23 10:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I avoid situations where people would try to approach and flirt with me. I normally flick guys off when they try hitting on me while Im driving and say "Leave me the **** alone Im married" when they try lookin at me up and down n try talking.
Do yourself and your spouse a favor and drive home as fast as you can whenever you find yourself in that position and **** them!
Giving into temptation is not worth ruining a marriage!!!
2007-10-23 10:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by That Special Someone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once you cross that line there's no coming back. You will never be the same, you will never look at your spouse the same. Look around everything as you know it will be gone. My ex wife did that now she's in a living hell trying to get a married man to see her worth. Good Luck
2007-10-23 10:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, when I was very drunk, was just walking in front of this bloke and he started chatting me up, but I just thought he was chatting, wasn't until he asked me to go back to his that I realised, what a twit, think I was lucky things didn't get nasty when I said no way!!
2007-10-23 10:34:07 · answer #9 · answered by Jelly B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one night of passion and a lifetime of guilt is just not worth it as it would affect everything. if you are in a relationship with a true heart and a clear conscious that means an awfull lot comphered to a few hours of passion.
2007-10-23 10:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by DONNAIS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋