i am so picky with picking my friends i only cohse to become firends with people who i think are nt ugly and are pretty so am so picky i can have a lot of more firends if i stop being so picky and the people i wan to be friends with dont even know me
advice please
2007-10-23 10:07:18 · 20 answers · asked by 2cool2bnice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If they are good friends to you, their appearances shouldn't matter. I don't think you are being to judgemental but a friend shouldn't be on the basis of looks.
2007-10-23 10:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by I Need Help 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are being insecure. You think if you hang out with beautiful popular people more people will like you. There is more to life than looks. Yes, you are being picky, you need to gain confidence in yourself and quit worrying what others think of your friends but how you feel about them as a person. You'll be a lot happier if you let that insecurity go.
2007-10-23 17:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by moonbaby279 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why do you think your friends should be pretty your not dating them i think your way to picky ill tell you that when i was in school one of my best friends was a girl who got picked on because of her weight but she never backstabbed me or nothing sounds like you dont have many friends if the ones you want dont know you you shouldnt be picky on how your friends look you wouldnt want someone saying no i cant be your friend your ugly would you
2007-10-23 17:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Really sad. You are missing out on some very cool people just because you are being shallow. But you probably want to hang out with other 'shallow' people so just look for the really pretty ones that walk with their noses up. They usually don't have any friends either.
2007-10-23 17:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by belleebuttons 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yea pretty shallow. You could have a lot more friends if you just be open to meeting new people of different shapes and sizes etc. Those pretty people that you say are your friends are probably not even your true friends
2007-10-23 17:13:43 · answer #5 · answered by Cyn 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's not very nice at all. What if you were in a bad car accident and you were disfigured for life and your beautiful friends shunned you because you're no longer "beautiful"?How would you feel? It's what's inside that counts the most.
2007-10-23 17:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by peaches6 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to get more friends and learn to spell check.
Vanity is a sin.
2007-10-23 17:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by 1luv 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
shallow hal
and learn how to spell
what is firends?
what is cohse?
P.S. if you look like your avatar then your ugly as hell
Good Luck with having no friends!
2007-10-23 17:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by Allie 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Superficial as a lifestyle choice. Good luck with that.
Good thing none of your "friends" care about spelling.
2007-10-23 17:12:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
That's sad. Once you become a teen, you'll start to get over it.
2007-10-23 17:10:56 · answer #10 · answered by andy in greece 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋