im 16
never been, except once a little one at the clinic
im scared to death
shy
and will she say anything about me shaving?
does it hurt??
tell me!!
no rude comments please<3
2007-10-23 09:46:46 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
god for those of you asking why im going, because girls are supposed too and my docter said to start going because im sexually active!!!!!!
2007-10-23 09:58:10 · update #1
ok do i have to get naked in front of her?
will she give me that cpv shot or whatever??
how often do i go?
2007-10-23 10:01:49 · update #2
You'll be fine! :-)
She'll just ask you some questions--whether you're having sex, if you're using protection, what is your period like, etc.
Unless you're having sex, she shouldn't have to do a pelvic exam. If she does, it's not painful and lasts maybe 30-45 seconds.
Just be sure to be honest with her--if you're having sex, tell her.
You'll also get a breast exam--painless.
She won't say anything about your shaving. They see so many different vaginas each day that it won't matter.
You will have to get naked, but you'll also have a gown on. It'll feel weird, but the whole appointment will take a total of 5-10 minutes.
You'll be asked to return for your annual exam--so once a year unless there is something that doesn't feel right. Also, you may want to talk about the pill.
As for the HPV shot--most insurance doesn't cover it yet, so while she may talk to you about it, they won't just give it to you without you knowing first.
2007-10-23 09:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 9⤊ 1⤋
I started going when I was 16 too, although I haven't been scared of any doctor since I stopped being afraid of shots (age 6 or so), so it wasn't really that scary for me.
No, it will not hurt. It will probably be a bit uncomfortable, and embarrassing, but you won't be in any kind of pain. But, yeah, he or she will be looking and messing with (not in a perverted way) your private areas, so that's something you're just going to have to come to terms with.
And don't listen to those people who say you need a female doctor. I have never had a problem with any of my male gynecologists, and they will do the exact same things that a female doctor would do. And no, they won't say anything about you shaving (or not shaving). That would be unprofessional. Besides, how many vaginas do you think they see in a single day? It's nothing new to them. This is their job.
Don't be scared. Just walk in like the young adult that you are and do what they tell you to. It will be over before you know it, and you'll realize that you had nothing to worry about in the first place.
If you are this nervous, make sure you always use protection. Being pregnant means going to these same people once a month, then several times a month when you are almost due. And you would go through alot more with these doctors if you were pregnant. After I had my kid, I pretty much cannot be embarrassed by anything.
2007-10-23 10:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by ChaoticKimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 18 and got my first pelvic exam and pap smear I had it done by my regular doctor not a gynecologist. Some regular doctors are ok with doing the exams.
For going to the gynecologist I would recommend seeing a female physician because it makes it easier to discuss things.
As for the shaving issue, they won't comment on it because they know a lot of women do it.
The exam if it does hurt can be because of being tense (which is understandable to be a bit nervous), if the doctor is too rough, or if they find something wrong.
As for the issue of getting naked, after you take your clothes off they will have a drape for the bottom half of your body and a gown for the top half.
Your doctor will also do a breast exam to make sure nothing is out of the ordinary there. With the exam of the pelvic area she will check visually for the vaginal discharge and take some of it if she thinks there might be an infection going on. Then after that she will take a special kind of brush to take some cells from your cervix that gets sent to a lab. Those are then checked to make sure that all is ok there. The results come back in about a week. If you notice any spotting for a day or two after the exam this is normal. This is caused by the irritation of the special brush that is used to take the cells.
If the doctor is really good she will explain everything she does as she does it.
She will also ask how you are feeling physically and about your periods as to how they are. Ask about family history of certain diseases.
When I had my first pelvic exam and pap smear my mom was there with me and I'm glad she was just for extra security.
As one of the other posters said she may discuss the issue of the HPV vaccine although not all insurances as they say are covering it yet.
She will ask you other questions about your health too. They do this to get an overall picture of your health so as to be able to help you better if problems should occur.
If you have other questions please feel free to e-mail or IM me off site any time.
2007-10-23 11:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by sokokl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, gynaecologists are a fact of life and as a woman it is something you will have to get used to.
For a start, gynae docs are usually women, but I'm sure you can ask for a woman doc just to make sure.
Also, they see hundreds and thousands of lady-parts, so there will be nothing in your pants that they haven't seen before.
Don't worry about shaving. I often shave, or at least trim, before I go just so I feel a bit more presentable.
Does it hurt? Well, it's not an enjoyable experience but it's not as bad as they make out. If you are having an internal exam, they will use a speculum which holds you open while they do their stuff. If you are tense it will be uncomfortable so breathe deeply and try to relax.
If you feel pain at any time, just tell the doctor. She will understand, I promise.
Don't worry about it. Just put it out of your mind then turn up on the day and just get it over and done with.
Best of luck.
2007-10-23 09:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by Fifi L'amour 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awww, Honey dont worry. Its nothing to be scared about. I will admit, I'm 26 years old and its still uncomfortable but its over in a second. The doctor wont say anything about your grooming habits. The most uncomfortable part is when the speculum is inserted. Its a tool that pretty much holds you open so the doc can scrape some cells out (you'll feel that a bit and sometimes might bleed a tiny bit afterwards, but it doesnt hurt). The doc will also insert a finger and feel your ovaries by pushing down on your tummy. Believe me, its a very important thing to have done.It checks for precancerous cells as well as anything unusual going on down there. And dont be scared to ask any questions!!!!
Oh, The doc will probably also give you a breast exam- just to feel for any lumps. You should do a montly breast exam yourself too. The doc will show you how.
2007-10-23 09:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your scared ask for a girl docter, and she shouldn't say anything about your shaving but she might say something if you have razor burn. Does it hurt? You mean a pap-smear? No it just uncomfortable because sometimes you can feel pokes and pricks. You will be perfectly fine, if you want take a low dose pain reliever. Talk to the doc when you go in and tell her how you feel ask her questions that are concerning you. It is a lot easier to go to the same doc for women reasons. It eases tension knowing that she knows you and that you can trust her, than to just have some stranger down there.
2007-10-23 09:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I remember the first visit to the OB/GYN's office. You are not alone when you say you're scared. Do not be shy, these Dr's see "parts" all the time. They will not say anything about you shaving, they did not to me! They are not there to judge you in any way. The process does not hurt, but like most procedures it can be a LITTLE uncomfortable. Mine tells me each step along the way so I know what is coming up next, this really helped the first time. Make sure you have a Dr. that you trust, or someone that your mom of other family member knows. Good luck.
2007-10-23 09:52:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your gynecologist is there to provide you medical advice/treatment ... not to judge you.
Getting a pap test involves having a device inserted into your vagina so cells can be taken for cultures (to be sure everything is ok, etc).
This procedure can be a bit uncomfortable, and this should make it easier to tolerate:
--- if you need to give a urine sample, give it
--- at this point completely empty your bladder (this will help you with the next steps)
--- tell the doctor to be very careful because you're afraid it will hurt ...... and .....
--- totally relax as much of your vaginal/pelvic area as you possibly can (this is why you need to have an empty bladder)
--- do NOT tighten your vaginal/pelvic muscles because they will close in on the device that's been inserted, and that will cause the procedure to be more painful
If you are not currently on birth control, I highly advise you to get on it...... NEVER, ever trust a guy to do it, unless you want to end up pregnant. Also, make the guy use a condom ALWAYS because you can still get an STD if you're on the pill.
Take care of yourself... you're the only YOU you have!
2007-10-23 09:59:27 · answer #8 · answered by ☺ . CIEL . ☺ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are shy, make sure that you choose a female doctor instead of a man. She will not say anything about your shaving unless there is something wrong (a hygiene issue). Also, make sure you answer all her questions honestly because things like whether you are a virgin or not will affect the way that she does the exam. If anything hurts, make sure to speak up because it shouldn't be more than a little uncomfortable.
Where are you making your appointment? If you check the web, many places (like planned parenthood or kaiser) will have a description of exactly what will happen when you get a pelvic exam there.
2007-10-23 09:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by Erin G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's ok sweetie. It's a little uncomfortable and yes, the first time might be a LITTLE painful but not much. Doctors are used to seeing people's private areas so it's nothing personal with them. They don't look and think "oh, she's shaving" or something. They don't care. All they are thinking about is the medical aspect of it all. They are looking for any abnomalities. You will go in, sit on a table, the dr will come in, make small talk, ask you about your period, any cramps, pain, etc...then they will give you 2 cotton garments to put on (1 for your top and 1 to cover your bottom area). They'll ask you to take off your clothes (including your bra and panties) and you'll put on the paper garments. Your parents should stay in there with you at all times. Then, in about 5 minutes the dr will knock on the door to make sure it's ok to come in and then the exam will start. A nurse will be present during the exam at all times to make you feel more comfortable. You lay back, put your feet in stir ups that separate your legs, and the dr examines your private area. He may also feel around both breasts to make sure you don't have any lumps that could be breast cancer. This is perfectly normal.
These exams are very routine. I know it's scary the first time but you'll be fine!
2007-10-23 09:53:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋