2007-10-23 08:31:32 · 22 answers · asked by brian k 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The only thing you can change AND be happy is your mindset about being gay.
If you don't accept it but instead choose to fight it, you're only setting yourself up for a life of depression, self-destructiveness and misery.
Once you fix your mindset about being gay, then you can work on finding happiness and fulfillment.
I've been down the path of self-loathing for many years, so trust me, it's the only way out.
2007-10-23 08:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Fix Gay
2016-12-18 07:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are multiple camps you can go to, but be careful as many are very extreme and may physically uncomfortable therapy. Do extensive research as to whether or not the camp has had a solid success rate. Of course, other than that make sure you really want to be straight (or whatever). If you are really depressed throughout the whole process than you probably shouldn't try to change.
PS "Pray the gay away" camps do not work. You need to find a psychological camp with a basis in mental science and health.
2014-09-11 12:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by ya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say this but to be gay doesn't mean you are broken. And since there isn't any way to fix what isn't broken you are just plain stuck being gay.
Sure you may not feel comfortable with being gay. then again maybe you aren not even gay but merely feeling some gay tendencies. However since you don;t elaborate on what makes you think you are gay I cannot judge that one.
Thing is though, if you are gay then you need to learn to accept it and move on with making a good happy life for yourself. To try to live your life in a straight manner (wife, kids and all that) is merely going to cause problems. So, if you don;t want to be gay and don;t want to create a bad scewne by playing at being straight, then learn to enjoy lots of self pleasure; that is natural and healthy and doesn't mean you are gay or straight...
2007-10-24 15:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is to not hate yourself. Second thing is to distance yourself from 'hating', like your brother and father. I'm sure deep down they are nice people and of course you love them, but it's probably because of some confusion or experience that they feel biased and behave that way. Be confident in who you are right now, and not what you think a gay person supposedly is or needs to be. Not everyone has a lisp, does their hair, wears tight jeans etc. Like straight people, there is a wide variety and no 'type' - that kind of thinking is total BS.
2016-03-13 10:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot fix it. You can ignore it and live a lie. I for one believe that people are born that way. Do what makes you happy. Do you not like being gay because of how other people view it? Don't let others make you feel bad just because they are uncomfortable with it.
2007-10-23 08:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You cant 'fix' being gay. The best thing to do is accept it, otherwise you will go through a terrible denial process like I did. No one can stop being gay. trust me.
2007-10-23 23:27:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is not something that is "fixable". It's not like changing your hair color or whitening your teeth.
You probably don't like being gay, based on what society says about it. Who gives a fvck what people say about it? They're not people you want to associate with or have as friends anyhow.
2007-10-23 12:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being gay isn't something you can fix.. or be forced into for that matter.
If you are having issues with it, its most likely due to societies nature to shun those things they do not understand.
2007-10-23 08:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by Siddles 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but that's how it is.. It's what you feel in your heart. Try being bi- If you like girls of course. Then you get the best of both.
You can either make yourself happy by being with another man who you love or be with a girl who you love.
It's always your choice, don't worry what people think. Make yourself happy- no one else
2007-10-23 08:36:00 · answer #10 · answered by lLOnIDon=Wonderland 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋