I tried acting civil..but its just gives her more excuse to annoy me. But is not nice to be mean either..
2007-10-23 08:11:09 · 6 answers · asked by ABC123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, i don't have a great heart 2 pray 4 them. But ofcourse if we consider something bad for ourselves, then we should consider the same thing bad for all others too, whether they are our freinds or rivals. We should not follow double standards. We shud stay nice wid such people n shudn't make thm to taste their own medicine. That might change their feelings toward us n if still they are not to change then the best way to deal with such people is to leave it on God. His punishes are much worse than those on the earth.
2007-10-23 08:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by mona k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omgod! im in the same stiutation and just posested somin similar. well i am enranged at the moment.
but when i calm down..i let them be. why should i give bad karma to my slef. im a strong believer in what comes around..goes around.
but i can unerstand...i have also been very civil and spoke up right about it. but like u said it justgiv thme more things to have a dig a bout.
its hard. but im trying to not let it get to me. and DONT feel sorry for them...unlike your 1st answer.
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2007-10-23 15:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one can not change a person who feels jealousy/envy. however, a person that verbally "puts you down", you can avoid the confrontations, or feel free to say, "if all you can do is put me down with your snide remarks, then its best we dont speak!"
everyone makes remarks ...in there head, but most of us are senistive enough to not voice them to intentionally hurt someone; and when someone intentionally hurts someone, physically or mentally, they are not people you want to surround yourself with.
good luck
hugz and kisses
2007-10-23 15:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always prayed for them. They must feel really bad if they go and put the extra effort of putting you down. Let God deal with their hearts.
2007-10-23 15:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by barbie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a phrase: Kill them with kindness. If she says something like "That's a hideous sweater, you look ridiculous", tell her she looks great and ask her for tips. If anything, it will confuse her, and she'll eventually realize that her insults don't get to you and she'll stop.
2007-10-23 15:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray!!!! Prayer will do one of two things. Change YOU or Change the situation. It will change you to the point that you will not even notice or care about that other person.God Bless.
2007-10-23 15:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋