What if he leaves his wife for me?

Question

How possible do you think it is that he will eventually leave ME for another woman?

Thank you for all the input. JUST FOR THE RECORD: I have only spent time with him once. I have never slept with him or done anything of that nature. We correspond but thats it for now.

Answer 1

The problem is that your questions make NO sense!!! In your first part YOU are the mistress. In part two you are the wife. Which is it????

Answer 2

First off messing around with a married man is dangerous for all involved...but, i don't necessarily agree that once he cheats he'll always cheat, maybe he married for the wrong reasons, and his wife is terrible to him, maybe neither of them love each other in which case they should not be together regardless of you. Maybe he's been a duck imposter but he's truly a swan, and you will be the one to help him see that. Stranger things have happened. I just caution you to move on this carefully, if you can't truly trust this man then I certainly wouldn't want to be in a relationship with him, it will only lead to you getting hurt, however, remember that people are human, they screw up somethimes, has he been unfaithful in this relationship before? or other relationships, or has he found himself in a hopeless marriage without the balls to move on. Just gotta ask yourself is it worth the risk? Does the wife have a clue? or does she think sh'es part of a happy loving relationship? Can you trust him? Can you live a life with a man that you can't?Best of Luck to you

Answer 3

You are to pretty to put yourself through such madness.
Think about this for a moment.
He is a married man seeing you. How many other women you think he is seeing right now. You are not the only one sweetheart. He has time for you he has time for others. He isn't nothing but a womanizer. He has you and probably two more just like you . Hook , line and sinker. Its a big lake out there.

Answer 4

I don't think this man will leave his wife. Most of them end up going back to their wives and are looking for someone new in the meantime. That's good that you haven't been intimate with him. I hope you plan not to be until you find out what he really wants from you. I've been reading your questions and getting to know more about the situation. Good luck on everything and take care.

Answer 5

What if he leaves his wife for you and leaves you for another woman? How long has he been married? Do you really want to be with him knowing he is not 100% faithful to the woman he took vows with? WAKE-UP!! Don't be home wrecker. Find a single man and let that married man focus on his wife. Cut him off on that level.

Answer 6

technically, he has already left his wife... by messing around... 1. You don't know if he's been physical w/ her... 2. You don't know if he's been w/ anyone else, not just you/her... 3. He probably has some disease... aids or hpv by now... 4. he may never "divorce"... 5. he may never "re-marry" 6. ya, you are probably just a re bound fling... and he will dich you as soon as he's "divorced"... dump this man... this does not look good on your relationship record, by the way, for being w/ a married man... not good at all... =(... many men will stay away from you when they find this out... =(...

Answer 7

if he easily leaves his wife for you then he will leave you too.......for another women....it's common sense and it happens all the time once a cheater always a friggen cheater. unless his wife really is scarry and nags at him day and night but also no-one is ever in the houshold that this two couples are in. so no-one really knows whats going on. he could be telling you i cant go anywhere she nags......!
then is their kids invlved....do you actually want that on your shoulder.... those kids will grow up hating you cause he left their mom for you.and they will grow upand when they face you can you answer their questions they need answered..
theres alot to question here before taking a mighty big step like that.
and yeah we are stuck with all the good guys married and all but there is someone else out their who is compatible with you., maybe you have been so blinded by this one guy that you never took the chance to look around the corner at who is waiting around the bend.
good luck to you,your in one spot i am so happy i am not in.i hope luv works out for you but for the right reasons.take care

Answer 8

Very possible, he loved his wife enough to Marry her, plus, you could never trust him to be out of your sight. He probably see's you as a woman with low self esteem to have to spend time with an unavailable man. There are way to many men out there for you to be wasting your time on this one that is obviously not worth it. (If that's you in the picture your a pretty lady, run away before your feelings are involved. )

Answer 9

The fact that you already wonder about it makes it 100%. By worrying about it, you will never be yourself around him, so he will move on to find someone like you used to be. I would record a conversation or "session" with you and him, and then tell him you will give it to his wife unless he gives you something. Yes that is blackmail, but the cheating b!@#@rd deserves it, and doing something morally wrong obvioulsy doesn't bother you anyway.

Answer 10

It's very possible that he'll leave you for another woman....that is if he leaves his wife in the first place. You should not be the deciding factor in a bad marriage.

Answer 11

I'd say you can count on it... probably in 5 years.. so don't make any long term commitments... like buying anything on time or a mortgage, and you know what... if you helped him in any way break up his family go on... be with him.. you deserve to feel the same heartbreak and humiliation that you helped to cause his wife.. You REAP what you sow... and sugar those aren't my words... the come from a lot higher power than me... Get smart girl... find you a man who doesn't belong to another woman... be fresh and free...