My boyfriend is a 'Cancer' male, and he has been very loving and romantic toward me since day one, but all of a sudden out the blue, he started acting arrogant and rude toward me. WTF ?!
Is this the 'moodiness' that Cancer males have ??
I mean why the overnight change in personality..??
2007-10-23 07:20:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
yes! I would say that describes a cancer male very well. The problem I have found with them (from dating them), is that they are very sensitive and emotional. So sure, when they feel like being affectionate and romantic, they display that easily. However cancer men are very concerned with their image especially the way they appear to their friends. They like to be seen as tough, "the man who wears the pants", which they are not, so they overcompensate by acting overly rude and obnoxious. They also get their feelings hurt easily, and often will react in anger. But they like to be in relationships, so when they feel they have pushed it too far, they will switch and try as hard as they can to get you to forgive them. I guess you need to decide if you can handle this trait. One piece of advice, stand up for yourself, cancer men (or pretty much everyone ) will walk all over you if you let them, and they respect strong women.
2007-10-23 16:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by spacecat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 03:39:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancers are moody - we just are, but there's really no excuse for being arrogant and rude. Try asking him what's up - we moody moon folks sometimes have trouble expressing negative feelings in a helpful way. And if he tells you he's just being moody, or whatever, then believe him - we don't need a reason to be grumpy - we just are sometimes.
Good luck!
2007-10-23 07:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
The symbol of cancer isn't a crab for nothing....
My boyfriend is also a cancer and he has SERIOUS moodswings..we're not even talking day to day, often its more frequent. I'm fairly certain other cancers are similar..they are ruled by emotion and i dont think they realize when they get angry, they just act on whatever it is they're feeling. If something pisses them off, they take it out on the person closest to them unaware of the feelings they're hurting. Definitely talk to him about how he's making you feel, i can almost guarantee he'll feel awful and apologize... because just as quickly as they can get mad,once he realizes you're hurt he'll get very apologetic.
A cancer man is a force to be reckoned with, take him with a spoonfull of patience.
2007-10-23 18:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by jackie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my cancer boyfriend can be moody sometimes(I'm used to it I just laugh if off now), but he's never been arrogant and rude that's just not one of their qualities. Something else must be going on-he might be seeing someone else.
2007-10-23 10:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by RodStone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is Cancer, he behave just like that, I would just leave him alone when he's moody being rude. I wouldn't bother to debate or argue with them though, because Cancer is always right.
2007-10-23 14:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by 結縁 Heemei 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course!!! Male cancers are known for changing emotions easily. They are happy in the morning and depressed in the evening :-P You have to know that cancer male do not leave a woman easily, especially if you are a powerfull woman he will never leave your side
2007-10-23 08:02:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Cancer, and I can be very loving and caring. However, if you butt in with unsolicited advice about my decision-making, or if you push me so far in a debate, take advantage when I'm trying to be mature, or accuse me of something I would never even think of doing, look out, because I can be a serious bastard.
2007-10-23 07:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by Sharon Newman (YR) Must Die 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Omg my ex is a cancer and he was rude as hell so i had to let his azz go but yes they are moody
2007-10-23 11:51:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband is a Cancer and he is as laid back as can be, I would not call him moody at all. So my answer would be no.
2007-10-23 07:48:29 · answer #10 · answered by Juliana S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋