I am 12 years old and i just got my period 1 week ago. Dont worry the question is not about my period i know what to do. BUT!!, my boyfriend said its time we have sex and we did right after i got off of my perid and i dont know if im pregnant what should i do. PLEASE HELP!
2007-10-23 07:18:27 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You let your boyfriend tell you that it was time to have sex?
2007-10-23 07:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by BTB{06.22.09} 4 · 9⤊ 1⤋
"Don't worry the question isn't about my period..." First ,I think I along with every other person who is answering this would rather have to explain your period to you than to explain that a 12 year old has no business having a boyfriend or having sex. Just because you started getting your period doesn't mean you need to start having sex. Secondly, no man has the right to make you do that. Third pregnancy is not the only thing to worry about when having unprotected sex, there is also hpv which is being shown to cause cervical cancer, hiv/aids along with several that I'm so irritated I can't even spell them right now. Lastly stop having sex, if you're not planning on stopping then get on birth control AND use a CONDOM.
Have you considered how dangerous teen pregnancy is and you aren't even a teen yet?
2007-10-23 07:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by maybe 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am 18 pregnant and married. I moved out when I was 17, I have a good job and we pay all our bills together. We each have our own cars and have a nice one bedroom apt. I still wish I would have taken things a bit slower. People tell I'm too young all the time but I am mature and have the means of providing for my child. What will you do if you are pregnant??
Right now I have a baby registry at Walmart. Com with some really cheap stuff and all together it will be atleast $800-$1200 for the stuff I will need before my baby even gets here.
Crib
Changing table
Dresser
Mattress
Bottles
Clothes
Swing
Carseat
Stroller
Diaper bag
These are just a few critical items you will need if you are pregnant and who will pay for them?? Seems like you and your boyfriend are too young to get jobs. How will your parents react!?? These are all questions you need to ask yourself before you let your boyfriend talk you into having sex.
My advice is let him go because if he can talk into sex drugs may be right around the corner and that is not a life you want to live. Find someone who will love you for you not because you let them have sex with you. In a few years you will not remember this boys name belive me!! You grow up and move on to bigger and better things.
Another thing to look into is birth control if you do decide to keep this guy, and buy lots of protection. Also check out some pictures/information of STD's believe me you do not want to get an infection they are nasty and most will stick with you for life. Warts and pimples on your private area will not be too attractive for your future partners.
Well goodluck and GOD BLESS YOU SWEETIE!!
2007-10-23 07:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I kind of know how you feel I was 18 when i got pregnant and my parents freaked so i know how scared you are to tell them. If you want to know now then go to your doctor or a health clinic if your worried that your parents might find out now i'm not saying it is the right thing not to tell your parents because if you are pregnant they will have to eventually know. I didn't find out that i was pregnant until i was 3 months because my period kept coming so don't always trust that. Now if your not pregnant I hope this makes you realize that 12 is toooo young to be haveing sex and that your b/f can't tell you when to have it because more than likely they won't stick around.
2007-10-23 07:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by mexican_angel4u2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him tell you when to do something. If you are comfortable about it then, think about it. Oh wait, your only 12. I lost my virginity at 18 because that was a time where if I would have gotten pregnant then I could provide for my baby. Now that I am 22 (and married), I am 9 weeks pregnant and could not be any more happy. Trust me if you are pregnant, he would try to leave you with the baby by yourself. Can you handle a baby yet (consider the fact you are still a baby yourself? Just enjoy your youth right now! You are be adult should before you know it!
Good luck to you sweetie! Whatever happens, I hope you make the right decision!
2007-10-23 07:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by dallaslibra 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, I hope you didn't have sex just because your bf wanted you to. I also hope you two used a condom. The only way you'll truly know if your pregnant is if you miss your next period. Since you just started you most likely aren't even regular yet. You best option, see your family doctor if you notice anything out of the ordinary. I'd say, wait until the end of November to see if you get your period again. If not, see your doctor. If you two do decide to have sex again, use protection. 12 years old is so young to be a parent.
2007-10-23 07:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by Krissy 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I'm worried that you're a little beyond help at this point. You could definitely be pregnant. And because you just started having periods, they might not be regular enough for you to know if you miss one next month.
I am very sorry if you can't go to your parents or other adult family about this. I have a 12 year old daughter and my heart would break if she did this. You are coming to the wrong place for any kind of real help with this. It's just plain wrong on so many levels.
Try the school nurse, school counselor, or Planned Parenthood (you can find them in the yellow pages).
2007-10-23 07:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you're 12 !!!! that is way to young to be having sex !
Second, why would you let your "boyfriend" determine when you should have sex ! It's your body not his !
Third, if you or your boyfriend were smart at all, you would have used a condom !! If you didn't then, you shouldn't be having sex !
Wait until next month to see if you get your period, if not go to the doctors !
Good luck.
2007-10-23 07:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by Steph 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he went, there is a possibility but you won't be able to know until your next missed period, I would'nt have sex anymore you are really young, and having sex comes with a lot of responsibility, you don't wanna be stuck at home when your friends are going out....and trust me your boyfriend wont stay home with you. Talk to your parents about what happened and they can get you checked out, parents can be more understanding than you think. Good luck! Keep your head up.
2007-10-23 07:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mommy2B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would having your period for the first time mean that its time to have sex? You are way too young sweetie. You can get pregnant any time you have sex, no matter what position, no matter what day of the month, and your chances of pregnancy are still there even if you use protection. Any time a man's (or in this situation, boy's) penis enters your vagina, there is a chance you will become pregnant, even if he doesn't "get off", there is still pre-ejaculate. You will have to wait about a month. If you don't have another period, buy a home pregnancy test, pee on the stick, and wait for the results. Please, please, please talk to an adult you trust about sex in the meantime.
2007-10-23 07:25:24 · answer #10 · answered by Jen M 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, hopefully you used a condom. You probably arent pregnant, but its still possible. Just relax and wait for about 4 weeks. If you havent gotten your period by then, you might want to talk to your mom and go get a pregnancy test.
You made it sound like your boyfriend decided it was the right time for you...if you werent/arent ready- tell your boyfriend you want to wait and if he doesnt understand then dump him.
2007-10-23 07:26:30 · answer #11 · answered by Alina's Mommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋