Me and my friend walk down the road. She has blonde hair. People stop me and her and ask her for her number. say 'wow' and stuff. They complete ignore me and make me look like an idiot.
Why are you like this?
HONESTLY (underlined) does this mean shes way more attractive than me?
And do guys prefer blondes and why?
thanks
2007-10-23 06:27:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
lol my mum said it was because she was more confident.
is she just trying to make me feel better?
HONESTLY?
thanks!
2007-10-23 06:32:27 · update #1
I don't think it has anything to do with how attractive you appear to be. It has more to do with confidence. Maybe your friend appears to be more confident to these guys. I used to have the same situation with one of my best friends, and felt I was in her shadow. I have brown hair, she has blonde...but I've come to realize that we are two separate people! We are both beautiful. :) Even if they come up to your friend first, that doesn't mean anything. Sometimes guys just see what is right in front of them at first, and pay no mind to what's underneath. If they get the chance to know you, they may fall at your feet. Another thing to consider, are these guys the type that you'd be interested in? You have your own goals, dreams and hobbies...you'll find someone that likes the same. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and just because someone thinks she is attractive doesn't mean that you are not. :) I hope this helps, and don't second guess yourself, just get out there and show your confident side!! You'll notice a difference.
2007-10-23 06:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by fontainegraphix 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy obviously, but I do have long blonde hair and the same thing happens to me all of the time! I am average looking but its the hair that does it. I bet if I cut it off and dyed it black no one would look twice.
Don't be jealous of your friend, because honest after awhile its really annoying! Its one thing to be hit on in a club or bar, but sometimes I really just want to eat dinner or walk down the street and not be cat called. Often times its actually frightening as I've been stalked around malls, grocery stores, gyms, etc.
All men are different and I know plenty of guys that love burnettes so no she is not prettier than you! If it really bothers you dye your hair blonde and see how you like it for awhile. But I'd love to hear some guys responses to this question.
2007-10-23 13:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys prefer blondes.
It might not be her haircolor, she just might be generally more attractive. Don't worry....most of the time when people get stopped or complimented by complete strangers it isn't because of their personality--it means they want to get in her pants.
She might be more approachable than you too. Facial expression, body language.....it can make you seem like you don't want anybody messing with you at all if you look mean or angry.
2007-10-23 13:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be in the way she carries her self, the clothes she wears, the look she portrays. I used to have the same problem with my bestfriend, then I started dressing nicer and walking around with my head up and showing that I had confidence. A guy likes nothing more than a women who has confidence with out being over bearing. Now I get all kinds of guys attention. I have also died my hair several times (brown black blone) and I always get just as much attention as long as I keep up my confidence level.
2007-10-23 13:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by Janna B. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For a lot of guys, they like the prissy I'm hot and great thing about a girl.It doesn't make sense, but that's alot of times what they like.There was probably just something about your friend they liked.Maybe they did prefer blondes, but there are a lot of guys that don't like blondes.
2007-10-23 13:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well apparently there must be something else that more attractive about her other than the blonde hair...she might be dressing better, have a better body and face.....not all guys prefer blondes so if this happens all the time then it most more than likely that she is actually more attractive than you.
2007-10-23 13:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by Natty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys prefer blond women. I like brunettes myself. I think it has more to do with the way you carry yourself(your demeanor). Your blond friend gets all the attention because she is being receptive and you're not. It's a subtle thing you do that causes guys to think you aren't interested in them, get it?
Good luck
2007-10-23 13:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys like blondes. Some do and some prefer brunettes. Maybe they like you too but just don't want to say it. One day though, you will meet the "right" person.
2007-10-23 13:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by Kimm. ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people believe blonde's are easy but besides that there are several things that guys feel blonde's have that other girls don't like that they are more easy going, love to party and go wild. pretty much just crazy stuff. in my case i prefer brunettes over a blonde so if you are a brunette don't worry you'll have an admirer.
2007-10-23 13:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by MODERATTO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, it means she is more attractive then you. its not just the blonde hair she must also have a better figure and face and be nicer to look at...
try finding an uglier friend and then maybe you will get more attention.
2007-10-23 13:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by howie r 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋