what would you do if you find out who and where the other woman of your husband lives?

Question

I would like to ask this question to wives.

Answer 1

get prepered to leave him, transfer all funds into your account one day, get a moving van, and move everything you can while he is gone one day, friends and family help make this process go quickly.

scrub the toilet with his toothbrush (this doesn't serve a point really, but his mouth is dirty anyway for kissing another woman, and it will make you feel better), and don't leave him any toilet paper.

don't mention that you know, because then he would be transferring money into his own account.

if he calls you, just say one word...the woman's name, and hang up and don't return any of his phone calls. don't let him know he hurt you. don't confront them, dont do anything else, it would give him the right to call you a psycho. he's in the wrong not you.

Answer 2

I've been down this road and it is a slippery slope. I personally held my husband accountable. He is the one in the relationship with me; he is the father of my children; he is the one that knows his responsibilities and the promises he made and the vows he took.
I did eventually talk with the woman because he was telling her lies and saying I was crazy and had said and done all kinds of things. Then he would turn around and tell me she wouldn't leave him alone etc..,
So I called her because I wanted her to know that I wasn't crazy and I didn't think she was and that he was the one lying and manipulating. Ii told her that we had 3 very young children together and that we were trying to work things out as far as I knew and if she could give us some time and space to do that for the kids if no other reason, it would be great.
She handled it very immaturely and was very rude to me.
Needless to say my husband and I divorced. He married this woman, treats her very badly and continues to have affairs on her. Most notable, trying several times to get me to engage in a relationship with him.
So if you are thinking about talking to this woman or confronting this woman, ask yourself what you want from her. If you expect anything in return, other than getting it off your chest, you will probably just be more frustrated.

Answer 3

I wouldn't waste my time trying to find out where "the other woman" lived.

If there was another woman, i would not stay with the husband. It's not the other woman's fault my marriage is a wreck, and husband is cheating.

It takes TWO to make or break a marriage. People outside of the marriage (such as the other woman) have nothing to do with the stability my marriage.

If a man has another woman, apparently he wanted one?

Answer 4

I think that although I would want to beat her down for the tramp she is or that I think she is, your problem is with your husband, not the mistress. If he's a cheater he would've cheated anyway, and if not with her then with someone else. Get out of the relationship and know that down the road this woman will probably be in your shoes wondering what she should do....Best Wishes and sorry that you married this man, or boy i should say. But no sense getting yourself i legal trouble, they are not worth it, but I did like the idea of sending one each of his shoes socks etc to her house, maybe do that just to make him squirm

Answer 5

First I would talk to a private investigator and a lawyer about pictures (pictures that you take or your friends take do not count in most states - they have to be taken by a PI)

Then (while he was at work) I would clean out the bank acct and pack his things and place them by the side of the road and call him at work and tell him that he better get to YOUR house soon because the neighbors are picking through his belongings that you put beside the road.......when he comes to get them...make sure you have a copy of those pictures sitting on top! (make sure that you have changed the locks before he gets home)

Answer 6

I've confronted my share of other women, at first, they're always scared and embarrassed to face me. Eventually, they give more detailed information about what is going on. Many times, the object of the husband's affection is not a goddess, just willing.

Answer 7

I would not nothing but confront my husband about the infidelity and ask him to move out. I would not want to meet the woman who was responsible for the breakup of my marriage.

Answer 8

It depends. It's not the woman's fault if she isn't aware that the man is actually married, but if she knew he was married then I'd confront her and just let her know that what she has been doing is horrible and how would she feel if she was the one married and her husband was cheating on her.

Answer 9

I know a woman who rented a dump truck and hired a few laborers to help her load the back of it with his stuff....all of it. She drove the dump truck over to his mistresses place with a friend and dumped it all in her front yard. This is probably what I would do.

Answer 10

Tell him you are driving him to the country and then dump him on her corner. Toss him the divorce papers out the window as you drive away. Change the locks and sell his car before he walks home.