i gave birth to stillborn baby boy a month ago, now were ttc and i was suppose to get my period yesturday but got negitive tests, this peroid im suppose to get is the first one since i gave birth. i dont know! im hoping im pregnant but the tests keep coming out negitive and so maybe it could be my period is going to come right when its suppose to cause its just getting back to normal. after giving birth i only bled heavy for 2 days then 2 more days spotting then i was done. and with my daughter years ago i bled for a month heavy. so im all confused and hoping to be pregnant. the past few days ive been a little crampy but not like when im suppose to get my period cause usually all day i get it and feel crappy. but its just once in a while and i feel like lately ive been peeing more often but idk if maybe its just cause im drinking more but i dont think im drinking more often then usual. ive tired a test everyday since 5 days before i was suppose to get my period all neg. today one neg.
2007-10-23 05:59:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
my doctor gave me the okay a few weeks ago to try again.
2007-10-23 08:05:46 · update #1
I'm sorry to hear about your baby boy. My husband and I lost a baby girl Aug last year when I was 21 weeks. We were told to wait at least 3 months. You need to give your body time to heal. It is different than just having a miscarriage (I have had 3 early miscarriages also before having my son). When you actually give birth your body goes through a lot physically and your doctor should have explained about how long you should wait. I wanted to pass along a website to you: www.angels4ever.com. They have an online memorial wall where you can put your baby's name, birth/death date, and even a website if there are pictures to share. Yahoo also has a link on this website for a support group for women that have experienced pregnancy loss through miscarriage, still birth, infant death. It really helps to talk to other women that have gone through the same thing.
2007-10-23 06:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um....I think it'll be a while before your period returns to normal. And I'd seriously consider giving your body a rest, both physically and mentally, before trying for another. You're having sex a month after giving birth? Ow and ow and ow!
2007-10-23 06:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋