guys, please help me understand something..?

Question

It seems like most guys have a stronger need for sex than women do. For example only maybe one or two times a month do i get so horny that i have trouble controlling myself. The rest of the time yeah of course i'd like it but I have no trouble controlling myself.

I'm just trying to understand what its like for a guy?

oh and i also have a question about condoms and do guys really mind using them, does it make things less pleasurable?

thanks!
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Answer 1

fuuck condoms. You cant feel shitt. Just get the girl on birth control, its more reliable any ways. if anything goes wrong..do morning after or visit the butcher (kidding about the last one)

Answer 2

ALL guys will complain about using a condom, but frankly, unless they are too tight, they are no big deal, and should be a deal breaker for having sex so guys should not keep on trying to avoid them. Guys can have sex many times a day, just the way we were made, so yeah, they are hornier than girls for the most part. Fortunately the hands reach down there and can take off some of the pressure.

Answer 3

We think about sex all the time. But it's only uncontrollable about 2 times a week for mature males. A boy in puberty is more easily aroused and have been known to ejaculate in his pants with very little stimulation. And sometimes just thinking about it. Not to mention wet dreams. That's just a fact of life like time of month for you. condoms are ok I like them because they slow things down a little and give the women more time to have pleasure and it's a lot less messy. I always liked them. And now with the enlarged prostate I last a lot longer and my sex drive hasn't diminished. So now that I'm mature I'm an excellent lover. Too soon old too late smart.

Answer 4

I think the biggest reason guys are sex hounds is due to the fact that we produce higher levels of testosterone, where women produce higher levels of estrogen. If you started giving a woman the same amount of testosterone that a man produces I'm sure her sex drive would increase as well as her growing more facial and body hair. On the other hand if a man was administered estrogen he'd likely stop growing hair and his sex drive would likely decrease. As far as condoms go, I don't mind them occasionally but going bareback is more preferable to me, because although condoms are extremely thin, there is still a slight loss of feeling.

Answer 5

Ya guys are pigs...lol. I think it has to do with testosterone and usually most guys masturbate just about everyday, if not more or a little less, to relieve that overwhelming feeling, since it becomes hard to concentrate or focus on much when you're feeling this way. Condoms...really depends on the person...of course they reduce sensitivity a bit, but I do hear that lots of guys, myself included, sort of lose it when the moment comes to get the damn thing on. Not to say that you should put yourself a risk! Hope I helped a little. D

Answer 6

I am not sure if this is the answer you want to read..But I do believe men think about sex all the time, I think that is the way god made us..If there is anything that we see, smell,touch that could bring on the imagination of wanting more sex, then us guys get it..as for the condoms, I only used them once and I hated it...they "hurt"..and I did not fell the inside of my woman at all, so no real pleasure for me.

Answer 7

All guys are different as far as how much sex is necessary!

The younger the guys are, the more they need it!

Its possible to have it the other way!

Using condoms can be distracting and somewhat less sensational.

He can have a change of mind, though, when he learns that's the only way!

Tell him you'll give him a bj if he puts it on!

Go Figure!

Answer 8

The difference for you ladies is your brains are not pickling in testosterone! They had a story in a magazine about a woman that they were giving testosterone to, to fix some hormonal problem (yes women have some testosterone too) she finally had to go back to the doctor to reduce the dose because she couldn't even do her work, all she could think about sex and everybody she looked at she wondered what would they look like naked; what they be like in the sack, etc, etc. She said, "I can see why guys are so messed up!" She was getting much less then what would have been in the average guy's body!

Answer 9

In a cruel joke, the "horny" feeling is created by the same hormone in men and women. Testosterone is the culprit. We have something like 20 times what a woman does in our bodies, I forget the ratio.

That's why we have facial hair, narrower hips, and carry on like we're dogs in heat. It's all a part of what I call "God's wackiest practical jokes." So for most of our lives, we're in overdrive.

When women go into menopause and their estrogen drops, their testosterone goes up a bit. So women get hornier as they get older, just about the time men run out of the stuff. ANOTHER great joke on humanity.

To see what fun a condom is, go to your favorite dining establishment and order your favorite meal, and eat it with a balloon on your tongue.

Answer 10

Ya... Most guys are sex addicts!!! LOL. I'm 64 and think of sex regularly. Doesn't take much to get the thoughts going. Most women have other thoughts occupying their minds and sex isn't one of them. Too bad. I am engaged to a women that is 62. We have sex almost every night....and it is great. Condoms are great for controlling the spread of STD's...but they sure as hell cut out the feeling for the man. It's like walking through the sprinklers with a raincoat on. You can't feel sh++.

Answer 11

Well, get a mix between the two events you mentioned and happening to you and the result just could be the situation involving guys every day. Obviously it's depending on age and sex-drive too. Sure, condom however is an obstacle covering penis sensitiveness and without just is another matter!