we met 4 years ago can not get her out of my head she the most lovly woman i have met
2007-10-23 05:24:22 · 14 answers · asked by gina 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
we met 4 years ago she so nice ,she know i am gay
2007-10-23 05:30:21 · update #1
If ur not gay then don't say.
2007-10-23 05:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First find out what her attitude is to gays in general. Then you might start sharing life experiences with her--do things together etc. When she is in a good mood bring up the subject.
Best thing I can think of. I did it once. Apparently the guy was bisexual, because it worked.
2007-10-23 05:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by robert2020 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, if you're sure she is straight and will never reciprocate these feelings, then just try and accept this unrequited love and move on. However, be careful, that you are not confusing your love for her and love for a friend. Good friends are so hard to find, so don't let this mess this up.
2007-10-24 00:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by dev2c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, the most you can go from here is a good platonic relationship. Not too shabby.
You're better off starting a relationship (with what you have in mind) with someone who bats for the same team.
2007-10-23 05:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by Joeyboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You do not tell her. It may ruin the friendship if you say it in a romantic way. However, if you think there may be a chance that she loves back: go for it.
2007-10-23 05:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If she is hetero, it will gross her out to think you love her as more than a friend. Then you will probably lose her friendship. You need to move on and find someone who is homosexual to meet those needs.
2007-10-23 05:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by Mom of 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, never.
I like a straight woman too but unless she's a really understanding person .... don't open your mouth. Only disaster can follow.
2007-10-23 06:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by elflaeda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not gay and there is no chance of anything but ending a friendship then I say keep it to yourself.
2007-10-23 05:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh,so she knows that you're gay then.
Is she seeing someone?(a boyfriend/...)
You can just confront her and tell her about it.Being truthful is the best way.
If you dont tell her your feelings,you will feel miserable i know that.
Good luck mate.
2007-10-23 14:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by Desiree Mu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...its like the story in hollyoaks where ur friends or more than friends but then it could ruin friendship too or maybe not.
2007-10-23 05:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if shes getting tired of being strait first -
2007-10-23 12:55:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋