i just found out my boyfriend has a small penis.does it matter or when its erected it becomes normal?
2007-10-23 05:00:09 · 37 answers · asked by mibes h 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
It matters.
2007-10-23 05:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by crazyguyintx 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Some guys are growers and not show-ers. Meaning that when not excited, they may look small but they grow to be large when excited. Some men that look long soft never get any bigger, just firmer.
How did you find out he was small? Someone peeking in the shower? Being cold can make it shrink also.
My ex's first ex-husband was tiny (like a pinky finger) but she still had great sex with him. He compensated for it in other ways.
Remember, 95% of the pleasure sensors on a woman are withing the first 3 inches of the Vagina. The "G" spot is only 2 inches inside. The rest is mental and the size queens are just shallow whores.
2007-10-23 05:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if he's small when erected then you just gotta do the best you can with what you get. Different positions,could help,or maybe get him some of those pills that always makes that guy smile on the commercial to enlarge a penis!
2007-10-23 05:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by happyhive7 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Size while not enlarged is not a good predicter of size when fully....loaded. But if it is smaller than average, let's say less than 4 inches when erect, then you mental viewpoint will probably become important. From a physiological view, he can still perform and bring pleasure.
2007-10-23 05:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it depends if he know how to use it right knowing he is small. Even if he is small doesn't ,mean he will erect large. Don't let it get you down, just learn to go along and tell him what makes you feel good and all. It could be to both of your advantage if you keep communication open.
2007-10-23 05:16:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Providing that the 2 of you didn't have sex yet, test the waters so to speak. If he got 'good swagga' in the bed, then it's all good!! But if anything, he should tell you up front if he has a problem 'handling it' or not.......Honesty is the factor. If my man had a small one but as long he can give it to me really good, it wouldn't matter. But his is "just right" ---- not too big or too small (a brown-sugar Goldielocks***lol)!!
Peace*************
2007-10-23 05:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by LuvlyOne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, check on the size of the average vagina, it's more than capable of handling up to 6 1/2. it can adjust to handle ANY size which is why it expands to handle a baby.. one of my exe's has an ex husband who is only 4 inches but up to me he gave her the best sex because they had chemistry and he knew what he was doing. they broke up because he was a butthole. we broke up because she wanted kids and I didn't. Im really sick of size only being on something to demean a guy. size on the other side is never discussed. if you have chemistry your sex will rock. a guy who is over 6 1/2 can make sex very painful because hell be pounding your pelvic bone. it's all about the magic in the magician not the size of his wand. peace!
I also wondering if your writing this guy off before you saw him fully erect??? and I have to close saying the next time you see guys checking women's racks think about this.one judgement is as wrong as the other.
2007-10-23 05:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends. If u feel that size does matter then it does matter. If he knows how to play it well, then size definitely not a question here.In the end, it is how you feel that truly matters. Whats the point of having a 8 inch dick if you don't know how to take advantage of its size?
2007-10-23 05:07:43 · answer #8 · answered by -TeRenCe- - 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Erect or not, it is "normal". No, it doesn't matter - it's the motion and speed that matter IMO. As you become more experienced, you and your partner will learn what you like and work together to that means.
2007-10-23 05:03:52 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ тнє σяιgιиαℓ gιяℓfяι∂αу ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It really does not matter, unless he is over weight, then having a small penis is not good, the tummy gets in the way, but if he is thin it should be fine!
2007-10-23 05:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by chicklione 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So long as it is normal sized, or close to normal sized then no. Obviously, if it is way outside of the range of normal, there would be issues!
2007-10-23 05:20:42 · answer #11 · answered by dynastronii 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋