my coworkers r cool with me at work but they dont want to hang out with me but they themselves hang out help?

Answer 1

My co-workers are the same way. I just tell myself that they don't want to be in public with me cause I'm better looking and they don't want me to show them up.

I know in my heart it is a lie, but it takes a bit of the sting out when they sit in the office and talk about the party at one of their houses over the weekend. They talk like I can't hear them and it doesn't hurt that they are talking about it and everyone is invited but me. Maybe they are afraid that all they guys will talk to me instead of them.

Answer 2

ok, some people don't like to hang out with those they work with. I would be that way, if I were working. I would want my social/personal life to be away from those I work with. Why?? Because I would have to spend 40 hours with these ppl, and that would be a crappy way to spend the day. I would not want these ppl to ruin my personal time. They are probably not liking the fact that they have to work with you and will not associate with you because of your desired sexuality. Not everyone is comfortable with it, and they probably don't want to make friends with you, after work, in case the friendship sours, then they have to work with you, and that would be difficult to do, for 40 hours,a week, all month long. Find another set of friends,who like you for u, and you will be ok. I am not a sociable person by nature, and i would want to be alone after dealing with ppl for that long during the day.

Answer 3

The way I've always been in life is that I don't want to be around anyone who doesn't want to be around me...and in the end I have great satisfaction in KNOWING that it has been their loss! Why would you want to hang with a group, where their first thing they show you is that they possibly don't like you? Do like me, start your own group to hang with and believe me, you'll enjoy, appreciate and feel way more at ease in this setting.

Answer 4

Sadly, you can't force them to just 'like you' outside of work (socially); that's something that is never forced. I bet they're not pleased that they have to be nice to you at work (if you have a non discrimination cluase protecting LGBT, which is why they're ok at work? correct me if im wrong please)
My advice: go get yourself your own group of friends.
Believe me, it's a drag to keep hanging out with your office mates all the time.
Plus, they might have personal information if you become too close that one of them might use against you at work if the friendship turns sour.
And you can't avoid them anymore.
That sucks vaccum cleaners.

Answer 5

people these days,how mean.It can't be helped though thats the way they are.Alot of my coworkers were okay with me and we talked alot at work but we never hang out and they always do.Maybe they'll feel "uncool" if they go out some place with you,as dumb as that may sound it may be true.some people are like that sadly.

Answer 6

I know how you feel. It does hurt when you work with a bunch of stuck up snobs. I know that you don't want to be around them all the time but it would be nice if you were included. Try and think of it as their loss. Because it is..........

Answer 7

It's their loss and you're better off with real friends away from the office. Office parties and get togethers are so PC and contrite anyway !

Answer 8

if they don't want to hang out with you, then they are not worth hanging out with. move on to another social circle.

Answer 9

try to fine another people.. to go out.. with you.. they are many people around the world.. where you can find a good friendship... try to do it.. and dont care for them