Heloo people..um i was wondering what i can get to numb my vagina because im a virgin whos going to loose it soon. I did try to have sex but the pain was unbearable so i dont even think i got half way..but i was bleeding ..it felt like i had thousand of chillies shoved in my vagina. Thats how bad the pain was like for me. Im thinking about doing it again but this time by numbing my vagina so i wont feel that pain. Will this work???? and is their any numbing products that i can buy? thx
2007-10-23 04:32:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
maybe its your body telling you that youre not ready. Perhaps wait a while before trying.
2007-10-23 04:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
It burned because you weren't ready. You need to be relaxed comfortable and "turned on" if it hurts it is not the right time, place or person. Sounds to me like you are trying to make someone else happy by "putting out" - bad idea. Sex is supposed to be gentle and comfortable then work up to the sweaty part. If it hurts the guy is rushing you. Also you may have an infection if you still feel pain from the first effort. If you have a Dr make an appointment if you don't make one at a Planned Parenthood or other clinic. Good Luck!
PS: Do not use Orajel or other "numbing" agents - the pain is your body's way of protecting you - and the Orajel will burn more than the sex.
2007-10-23 04:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
No there is no such thing. If you try and use a numbing product intended for something else you will likley develop an infection and have the burning sensation 24/7. Don't use numbing products or any other products that aren't intended for the vagina.
2007-10-23 04:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What hurts the first time is 3 things usually. The hymen hurts when it breaks, but you can break that yourself and get it out of the way. It's like a baby tooth, it serves no purpose, you won't miss it when it's gone.
The next thing that hurts is that dry skin on dry skin rubbing hard and fast against each other is really uncomfortable. Try it with your finger on the back of your hand for a minute, and you'll see what I mean. Then try it with some hand cream on your finger, and it'll be much better. So when you masturbate, get to know how and when you need slippery stuff to stop that dry skin on dry skin feeling.
The third thing is that your muscles need to, um, stretch. It takes time for them to get flexible enough. If you practice stretching them before hand it's a bit easier, it's like a ballerina practicing to get more flexible for time on stage. I can't describe it, but you may be able to figure it out.
I hope this helps!
2007-10-23 05:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your looking into the wrong solution. Don't numb yourself! Sex would be pointless if you did that. Just take it slow, and learn to relax yourself. Get your guy to go down on you first, it will get you more arroused, which may help a lot.
2007-10-23 04:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is really stupid why would u numb urself was the point u wonnt feel anythign so ur will only be giving pleasure to ur parner i mena how old are u? maybe u just not ready think about it and dont rush into it. sex is about pain so getuse to it dont numb urself it not healthy it soudn liek soemone it sound u only doign it to please soemone so jsut wait believe me not worth it good luck think about it
2007-10-23 06:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-01 15:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-27 22:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by mercer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some Mandelay cream at the drugstore. It is with the condoms. It should numb you down there.
2007-10-23 06:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never heard of anything like that, numbing things anyways.
2007-10-23 04:36:05 · answer #10 · answered by Grants a tractor luvr! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its just a passage of life, every woman goes through pain the first time. Dont buy any products.
2007-10-23 04:36:53 · answer #11 · answered by tarie75 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋