My husband and i have been haveing some major problems. I have moved to Utah and he is supose to join me in two weeks. two days ago he was talking to me and all of the sudden he wont talk to me any more. he ignors my phone calls and wont talk to me. this has upset me a great deal. i don't know if he is having doubts about moving or what. i don't know what to do. we need to talk about the apartment and everything and i can't get him to talk to me. what should i do.
2007-10-23 04:26:15 · 13 answers · asked by Amers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
please dont be rude with your answers. i understand that you may not know how it feels but please consider feelings of those involved.
2007-10-23 04:33:47 · update #1
Sounds like it's time for a face to face meeting......see him confront him and find out whats wrong....good or bad ...right or wrong....you must have an answer and it's time for him to fess up, to continue like your are will accomplish nothing, he will either come to his senses and tell you the problem or you must FIND OUT ON YOUR OWN!!! there must be a truth here in order to give this problem some closure and move on!! all my hopes!!GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-10-23 04:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by trekkie1972566 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sometimes they just might need some time to think about things. If you think he might be regretting having to move to Utah, then maybe he just needs a little bit of time alone to give his own thoughts a whirl instead of talking to you about it. If he's unsure, maybe he doesn't want to hurt you or make you upset by what he's thinking, so he'll need to think it through in his own brain before bringing it up to you. Oftentimes, guys won't talk to us unless they know exactly what they're thinking.
On your next message to him, you can say something like, "I haven't heard from you in awhile and I'm getting concerned. Please just call and let me know that you're okay." If he calls you back, just say you're happy to hear that he's okay, that you love him, and that's it. Don't ask about what's going on with his Utah move...but tell him that you'll want to talk to him about it as soon as he's ready.
2007-10-23 11:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most difficult thing to do in this life is control the will of another person. You can influence, inspire, and motivate... but never completely control. That being the case, I suggest you back off and make yourself willing to accept unfavorable results (unmet deadlines, unpaid bills, etc.). Or you can continue to sit there and worry yourself over a situation which is out of your control.
2007-10-23 11:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to have a face to face meeting to find out what exactly the problem is. If he's not answering his phone, he may be extremely busy or hurt or God forbid, has a new girlfriend.
2007-10-23 11:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by Yankee Micmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you the person who asked what the best way to dispose of a body is, or was that your husband asking?
He is looking for a way to leave you. Ignoring you is a good start.
2007-10-23 11:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by crazyguyintx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has changed his mind and he will not be making the move.. You move to Utah for a reason so follow up on it... Good luck and God bless Grant M in Pennsylvania
2007-10-23 11:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably cheating on you. Some men take the easy way out and avoid communication so that they dont have to explain what is really going on.
2007-10-23 11:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by eliza l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the Jerry Springer show
2007-10-23 11:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by Back W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop asking the same question. People will start ignoring ALL your questions because you're ANNOYING us!
2007-10-23 11:30:10 · answer #9 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He may have declared himself " on vacation from marriage". Just proceed without him.
2007-10-23 11:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by undone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋