2007-10-23 03:44:33 · 24 answers · asked by AAA 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I have the same problem don't know what to do.
2007-10-23 05:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by xcluesivebabe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you tell your boyfriend he might either get jealous or nag the bags off you to do it with another gal in front of him. Don't ask a lesbian to do it with you so you can experiment, she may be offended that you are using her, unless she is an old bull dyke. Some lesbians are born lezzies, some are made (as a result of bad experiences with men that mentally affected them), some just can't get a man but need love, and some gals are just bored and want to try something new and shock everyone and be the centre of attention. If you have an affair with a real dyed in the wool lezzie, she might want you to settle down and go halves in a dining table and chairs etc, whereas you might want to buy the dining table and chairs and let her buy the beds and bedside tables, because way in the back of your head you have been brainwashed to see yourself one day in a big white dress walking down the aisle to marry a man. If you think men are violent, you've never seen a lezzie wielding an axe. Don't go into a relationship with a woman thinking they are the gentler sex. If you are the fem, the butch one will dominate you with such animal cunning that when you split up you will have to spend time in a mental hospital to get over it after you get out of the general hospital. There are always exceptions of course.
If a gal is a lezzie cos she can't get a man, and a man makes her an offer, she will drop her girlfriend like a hot cake(not even waiting to get condoms), or at least be unfaithful. So don't think you are free of venereal diseases. Doing oral on a bloke could result in perhaps one cold sore on your lip but doing it on a girl, you can get them all over your face from eyebrows to chin and ear to ear. So carry a box of clingfilm to nightspots with you, cos that is the sign you are a LESBIAN ON THE LOOKOUT!
When you get into a relationship, if you do, with a gal, you have to sit down and talk about who will do what. Don't presume the butch one will mow the lawn and wash the cars and the fem one will cook and clean, like is supposed to be traditional with male/female relationships. The butch one will laze on the couch watching tv while expecting the fem one to do everything, so be warned, there is not much difference between being a lezzie and not being. The butch one doesn't want to compete with men so she will insist you two only socialise with other lesbians and it is a minority group and to only socialise with other lesbians BECAUSE THEY ARE LESBIANS and not because you have other stuff in common, is very boring. The big perk is that you get to go to gay guy's parties if you don't look too lezzy (black slacks, white business shirts), so that the neighbours will think the guys are heterosexual. Gay guy's parties are a real hoot, that is why they are called GAY. Lesbian's parties are generally not. Especially when they all have their periods at the same time cos they live in each other's pockets.
2007-10-23 11:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by wemblania 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boy friend about it and see how he feels. Roughly 95% of men would relish the idea of there girl being bi so I am guessing he will be all for it.
2007-10-23 10:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe what you feel is not actually bisexual. Are you really willing to have a relationship with girls? If not...you are probably wrong. Maybe you are just attracted to girls.... stick with your boyfriend.
2007-10-23 10:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by a---x3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your boyfriend about your situation and see if he is ok with you being a bisexual. It's not fair to him if your cheating on him with girls or dont tell him whats going on
2007-10-23 10:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by Shay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe there is something lacking in your relationship with your boyfriend? Being able to talk, listen to each other, maybe it is something you two don't see eye to eye with. To answer you question fully, you are going to have to look within yourself. You have the answer that you seek.
2007-10-23 10:48:40 · answer #6 · answered by amandamoose 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is not such a major issue. Get past the sexual experimentation and you'll better understand your true sexual orientation.
2007-10-23 10:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Y*G*L ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are attracted to them, then you probably are bi. Your boyfriend may be facinated by it. I would tell him how you feel, if he approves, then experiment. But if you experiment and don't tell him, he would probably consider it cheating, especially if he doesn't agree with it.
2007-10-23 10:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you're happy with your boyfriend then why not stay with him? But if you're not then you shouldn't be with him, and you should be with whoever makes you happy. Do what you want (follow your heart).
2007-10-23 10:48:45 · answer #9 · answered by Emily 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could be bisexual, or just forget about it. if you really like/love him, stick with him. if it becomes worse, just say that you've been looking at girls in a different way than you used to.
2007-10-23 10:48:12 · answer #10 · answered by liviaomgwtf. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have a crush on one? add details. our society is so degenerated, the influence on young minds is astounding. You may just be confused.
2007-10-23 10:48:11 · answer #11 · answered by Bistro 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋