I am Raam.,India.
In my family ,I am the last son.
I grown up in the closeness of my family.
My father was died in an accident last year.
Now our family has not a financially high.
My problem is....I am loving a girl who is a poor one.
My family is not known that matter.
They are thinking as doing marriage with another girl who is loving me since 2 years.She is a rich one.
I am loving Poor girl so much.
My family will settle in comfortable life by marrying the rich one.
What can I do?
2007-10-23 03:34:03 · 7 answers · asked by Raam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I understand your situation but the best thing for you know is not even thinking about the girl but your stability. Make your life first and put in track and when all are solved, think about marriage. YOu may love her so much but since you are not financial stable, and marrying someone rich is not a solution netiher, but work on yourself first, make your life better and marry later
2007-10-23 05:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This makes me so sad. I know you feel obligated to take care of your family since you Father is gone but to marry the rich girl will be the biggest mistake of your life. Life is way to short to not be with the one you love so much. Surely if all of you pull together as a family you can make enough money. Please let us know your decision and how things are going for you. I would give my own son this same advice.
2007-10-23 10:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by doodlebug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi... first of all i m sry for ur father. coming to ur marriage marry the girl whom you love. money s not a big matter. We can get it at any time if we work hard. bt marriage is not that once u marry someone you should have a pure relation with that person. why do u think ur family should lead a comfortable life with that girls money. if u r able to make ur family comfortable with ur money they will be more happy nd u will also be. just think over it
2007-10-23 12:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by neha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marry the girl you love. She is the one you have to live with and spend your life with. If your family cannot accept this it's their problem.
Sorry about your father.
btw I know you are from a different culture and priorities are often different. But you asked in a global forum (predominantly Western world) so most answers will be from that perspective.
2007-10-23 10:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to marry the rich girl then it is not marriage, it is taking care of financial needs of your family, in a relationship of need fullfilment love does not exist. decide between love and need.
2007-10-25 21:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by thachu5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your life, do what is best for you. It was your fathers job to make sure his family was well taken care for. You can help out your family but they don't need to be rich and you miserable.
2007-10-23 10:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand exactyl how you feel sweety. my advice is to go for what your heart feels..becuase if u dont love the rich one than u wont be happy in life. follow your heart and do what is BEST FOR YOU! LOVE THE POOR ONE BECAUSE MONEY DOESNT BUY LOVE...AND IT NEVER WILL. FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND LOVE THE POOR ONE WELL AND NEVER LEAVE HER SIDE. GOOD LUCK SWEETHEART:)
2007-10-23 10:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by saved 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋