I am 15 and heavy into the "party scene". Me and a bunch of my friends were getting high. One of my BFFs(best friend forever) and her BF(boyfriend) declared they were goin up stairs to have sex...and anyone who wanted to have sex could go upstairs with them! me and my BF and 2 other couples went upstairs(we all stayed at different sides of the room...it was kinda awkward) I wasn't a virgin so i thought it would be a fun experience that we would always remember. I am totally in love with my BF anways so it not like i was being a slut and sleepin with someone im gonna dump soon or anything.He had a condomn, but i dont know if he put it on right or not. He said he was a virgin and he loved me so he wanted to lose it to me...and NOW would be a perfect time. We did it on Saturday the 13th or 14th. Ever since then ive been getting sick after i eat ALMOST ANYTHING....Im so afraid and i dont need a lecture...my parents will do that soon enough and ive been yelling at myself for it. HELP!!!
2007-10-23 03:28:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
thanks for the help everyone...i just need support and answers. I know alot of people on here like to bash others when they make a horrible mistake(like this) but please, i dont need that right now!
2007-10-23 03:41:26 · update #1
and to nikki or w/e the hell your name is: i made some wrong choices and im asking you friggin people for help so if you're gonna be a ***** then dont even answer the f***en question!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-24 14:43:38 · update #2
You just have to wait and see if you're pregnant. There is no wrong way to put on a condom. It just slides on. If it broke, that's a different story of how hus sperm got inside you.
2007-10-23 06:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First af all, calm down. This is not the end of the world, although it may seem so to you right now. Check your period and see if it is normal and on time. Next Sat you can make a pregnancy test, which you can buy from the pharmacy. Then cross the bridge when you come to it. Good luck and whatever the outcome seek support from your guy
2007-10-23 03:36:05 · answer #2 · answered by Peprina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait and see if you miss your next period...if you do, take a pregnancy test, you should be able to take it then for an accurate result but check the box or ask a pharmacist. it could absolutely be your nerves making you sick, try not to worry too much but i know that's easier said than done. if you aren't pregnant, take this is a chance to learn from you mistake. if you're going to have sex PLEASE get on birth control, there's no reason not to. since you're under 18 you should be able to get it free at planned parenthood, just call and make an appointment. it's also a very good idea to always use a condom. even if you love and trust your parter, you never know who he has been with previously...plus it's just extra protection to keep you from getting pregnant! good luck...i hope everything works out for you!
2007-10-23 04:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't even know what to say to this...You're 15, you party, you get high, and you're having sex in a room with multiple people. I don't even have to tell you what I think about that.
Would you be surprised if you were pregnant? Seriously? I mean, you have to realize that having sex can cause you to get pregnant, right? It seems like you just don't care about anything, given that you're getting high and having sex.
My advice is to wait until you miss a period and take a pregnancy test. If you're not pregnant, then consider this a WAKE UP CALL and cut the crap.
2007-10-23 03:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Go to a drugstore and buy a test kit. It should tell you right on the box how soon it can tell you the answer.
2007-10-23 03:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by turnabout 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell this to ur bf rather telling to your parents.don't orry time is a great healer and everything will be fine.
2007-10-23 04:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by nicky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you certainly could be
2007-10-23 03:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by dumplingmuffin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look the sex stuff given you age is fine.
but
IF ANYTHING GOES WRONG AND YOU THINK THERE IS A-N-Y DANGER OF GETTING PREGNANT YOU DO N-O-T WASTE TIME ASKING SILLY QUESTIONS HERE OR WITH YOUR MATES OR THINK WE'LL BE OK...
YOU
GET
YOU
BUTT
TO
GET
A MORNING AFTER PILL i.e. plan b
95% goner work if taken within 24 hours (so don’t wait and ask questions here and on a Sunday or say Xmas day go to hospital) that’s 5% you going to get pregnant
25-48 hours (two days and nights)
Its only 85% efficient that’s 15 % chance you will get pregnant
After 2 days it’s only 58% effective (much like flipping a coin)
You may be able to get an IUD coil as well.
IN OTHER WORDS NO QUERSTIONS ON COULD I BE PREGNANT… GO AND GET THE DAMN PILL OR BETTER STILL HAVE SOME IN THE HOUSE JUST IN CASE… BUT IT’S FOR EMERGENCIES…
Proper contraception is better i.e. Depro injections AND condoms.
THAT NIGHT OF FOLLOWING MORNING EVEN IF BUNKING OFF SCHOOL OR WORK... TRUST ME BRING PROOF AND THEY WILL THINK YOU DID THE RIGHT THING.
EVERY HOUR COUNTS...
http://www.morningafterpill.org/map2.htm
ABORTION PILL
http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/articles/article_92.asp
VACUME ASPIRATION OR SURGICAL ABORTION
http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/articles/article_99.asp
TELLING PARENTS
http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/articles/article_61.asp
get yourself clued up BEFORE doing anything else
HELPLINES FOR TEENAGERS TO ANSWER QUESTIONS
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I.e. Russian = breast sex… get the idea?
What you have to look forward to
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K45m79fEyz8
TEENAGE HEALTH FREAK
www.teenagehealthfreak.org
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SEXWISE
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www.ruthinking.co.uk
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www.childline.org.uk
FOR YOUNG PEOPLE
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FAMILY PLANNING ASSOCIATION
www.fpa.org.uk
EVERY HOUR COUNTS...
http://www.morningafterpill.org/map2.htm
NHS DIRECT
Tel: 0845 46 47 (NHS 24 in Scotland: 0845 4242424)
Website: www.nhs.uk/England/NoAppointme...
WalkInCentres/Default.aspx
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THE SITE
www.thesite.org.uk
Site run by the charity Youth Net, with fact sheets, support and guidance for young adults on sex and relationships.
PRE-TEENS
www.factsoflife.org.uk/
Information on puberty and growing up for teachers, parents and preteens.
ABORTION PILL
http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/art...
http://www.prolifeismurder.com/...
www.brook.org.uk
Abortion advice without the religious crap
http://www.mariestopes.org.uk/
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Helpline: 0800 0185 023 (Mon–Fri 9am–5pm)
E-mail: admin@brookcentres.org.uk
Website: www.brook.org.uk
Provides free and confidential sexual health advice and contraception for anyone under 25. The website has tons of useful information including a secure on-line enquiry service and a text messaging service.
Abortion advice without the religious crap
http://www.mariestopes.org.uk/
ABORTION PILL
http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/art...
VACUME ASPIRATION OR SURGICAL ABORTION
http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/art...
TELLING PARENTS
http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/art...
SCARLETEEN
www.scarleteen.com
American site with loads of sex education info aimed at people aged 13–25.
Sex, etc.
WWW.SEXETC.ORG
American website by teens, for teens, with information on sex, contraception and relationships, including talk board and Blog.
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NATIONAL SEXUAL HEALTH LINE: 0800 567 123 (Available 24/7)
Website:
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verification from the brook service
It matters not how it gets in as long as a single microscopic sperm cell gets in, it can get you pregnant.
Be he come inside your vagina, the sperm is on fingers that go inside you; it does not have to go inside... Sperm swims, vaginas are wet, it only has to get on the outside or near enough to be wiped over, or even go though underwear (just like water and you can get pregnant.
And as soon as willies are hard they leak sperm to lubricate and moisturise the Willy so the skin don’t crack and the Willy does not get hurt.
Kinda all in one the sperm lubricating a Willy which the guy can’t feel, only a drop or so contains millions of sperm, it only takes one.
When he cums i.e. squirts it contains trillions of sperms...
Few million then a few trillion and it only takes one.
Get the picture? Oh and it stays in body for a week so you can get pregnant anytime of the month. It’s just some days it’s more likely that’s all.
IF THIS HAS OCCURED IN THE LAST TWO DAYS GO NOW, NOW NOW NO WAITING FOR OTHER REPLIES TO THE DOCTORS, CHEMIST, HOSPITAL OR FAMILY PLANNING CLINCI FOR A MORING AFTER PILL WHICH HOPEFULLY WILL STOP IT
AND OR A COIL INSERTED FROM DOC, FAMILY PLANNING, PLANNED PREGNANCY ETC WHICH MAY BE USED UP TO 5 DAYS AFTER SEX.
THE QUICKER THE BETTER.
I HAVE THE BACK UP OF ALL THE AGNECIES BELOW AND MORE INFO AS YOU GO DOWN. SEE THE LOT. THIS IS HOW YOU KNOW IM TELLING THE TRUTH
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Also
A)
THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS PULLING OUT FOR SAFETY.
AS SOON AS A DK IS HARD IT LEAKS SOME SPERM (MILLIONS PER DROP TO LUBRICATE AND MOISTURISE THE WILLY)
ANY ONE OF THESE CAN GET YOU PREGANT.
It only takes one time.
If you have been taking the pill (if that is what Celeste is) as instructed, on time (honestly) no skipping, vomiting, diareah or taking antibiotics or sty johns wort
You should be ok IF YOU FOLLOWED THE INSTRUCTIONS.
Always best to have a back up i.e. condoms and the pill
3 month depro Injections are better. Less **** ups.
Bearing in mind
Antibiotics, St Johns Wort, Anti Seizure, Anti flu, Anti migraine and some medicines STOP HORMONAL CONTRACEPTIVES WORKING…
I.e. the pill, injection, nuva ring, patch or implants.
OR NOT TAKING THE PILLS AT THE SAME TIME EVERY DAY
See all info below... yes I know it’s long.
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Ask those whose job it is to answer these things ho tell you the truth.
Not your mates or any tom dick or Harry here.
That’s like asking a Hairdresser how to fix you cars breaks
I.e. can a girl get pregnant during her period?
http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/pregnancy/a/whenpregoccur.htm
http://www.newscientist.com/article.ns?id=dn3927
Truth is yes especially if you are a teenager whose cycles may not have stabilised. Though most guys would be like euuuuw
Sperm stays around for a week inside you and sometimes especially teen girls have multiple ovulations or varying cycles.
Whilst at it
You can also get pregnant is the guy pulls out as
A) Guys in teens come in seconds with no control, be even if they *** over your vagina it still works (see below)
B) Willies as soon as still leak drops of sperm to moisturise and lubricate the Willy... Guy can't feel them but each drop contains millions of sperm, one will do the trick. When he comes its billions instead that’s all.
2) You can’t get pregnant from a BJ unless you spit it out onto you fingers or other item which touches you down there
3) Anything oil based i.e. chocolate or ice cream makes tiny holes in condom rubber like acid that sperm can get through in seconds. (Polyurethane ones like Durex Avanti are immune to them)
4) IMPORTANT
ANY way ANY sperm get on, in or near you vagina can get you pregnant... sperm swims in wet environments and can swim across your thigh and into your vagina. If it’s wet its alive outside the body. If the guy spills drops, drips, humps your leg and cums near, on you belly and it dribbles down on you butt even in it and it dribbles out and down between you legs, is wiped,
You sit on a 'wet patch' he comes on you panties and it goes through the material (well are they rubber? if water gets through so does ***).
Or on fingers say when he took the condom off and got some on fingers and did not wash his hands or Willy after.
ALL can get you pregnant... So it’s smart to get on the patch, injection or implants... Follow the instructions i.e. certain drugs, medicines, vitamins like antibiotics or St Johns worth will stop it working temporarily.
But won’t stop STDs which you can get from oral sex if cuts or ulcers in mouth (likewise herpes from cold sores) or eye contact say touching eyes.
And as blood borne say STDs can come from first aid or open wounds say in sports or an accident.
So still wear condoms as well.
And practice using them as it’s not as easy as it sounds. One **** up and life ****** up.
No extra lives.
And practice getting morning after pills i.e. where to go so you know and on a Sunday or say Xmas day.
2007-10-23 08:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋