welll? have you? have u ever fallin in love with someone u meet online? tell me about it.
2007-10-23 03:27:42 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yeah, but he turned out to be that guy from Dateline NBC. How embarrassing!
2007-10-23 03:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I started talking to a guy on the Internet and after about five months of talking two to three times a day on the phone we finally met in person. He ended up being the man of my dreams...he still is. Just be careful and take it slow. Meet in a public place, like the mall, and keep the first meeting short.
2007-10-23 03:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lady B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have met some people online thruogh personals and such. I have never fallen in love with any, yet. I even met up with some girls that I had already met at bars or wherever, that was fun. If you do meet up with people make sure friends or family know where you are going and what you are up to. Also make it a public place. A trick I use is to have one of my buddies in the background, just in case the chick is mental case or something.
2007-10-23 03:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by gotbeerimez69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have I belong to a yahoo spades group. Every year we have a get together for an entire weekend for any members that can attend. I have been able to attend the last two and had a chance to meet several of the members in person.
I have not fallen in love with any of them ( being already happily married ) but a couple of them have become very good friends.
2007-10-23 03:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The internet was an outlet for me. I am sorta quiet and rarely set foot in a bar. I'm not a church-goer, nor a socially outrageous type....so the internet was a great place to meet people.
I could totally converse with someone I'd never met for hours, finding all kinds of similarities and fun things to discuss. Course a huge majority of conversations turned towards sexually uninhibited porn sessions, not always a bad thing, but not what I really wanted. Yeah, I wanted a sexual relationship, however I wanted a friendship, someone to share with; not just sex, my life in total.
I met maybe 9 guys over a course of a year or two. Those were guys that I thought I could talk to in public. They showed a great sense of humor, described themselves as what I might be attracted to and yes I met most of the 9 sight unseen, no pics.
The first one was the hardest. Going on a blind date, wondering if I'd like them, but worse yet, hoping they'd at least like me. Confidence is not my middle name, however for some reason I could project on these dates. He said he looked like Al on Tooltime, nothing about him was Al. He brought me a rose and we talked for quite some time, but no physical attraction and we've not spoken since.
And of course, during the years that I searched on the internet, I ended up with someone 22 when I was 42. That was a sexual experience. We have not met in person again, but have continued to chat over the years. Strange.
I'd say 3 guys of all I've chatted with might have been stalkers or odd balls. One wanted me to wear nothing but spike high heels and short skirts and gave me the creeps. I even changed my phone number after that one because I was stupid enough to give him it.
But the one I fell in love with was worth all the others. He's funny and sensitive and as down to earth as they come. We met at my apartment, that's how comfortable I was with him after chatted for a couple weeks on the net. Stupid it might have turned out to be, but we took the chance. We dated for a couple years and have been married now for the same amount of time.
Remember that you need to have some common sense when deciding to meet someone. If you have any thoughts that this one might be dangerous or after nothing but sex, if that's not your cup of tea, then don't meet them. Ask yourself, "If I met this person in a bar, would I leave the bar with them?". You need to protect yourself by making sure somebody knows you're meeting someone new. Same simple rules apply to dating off the internet as to someone you met at work, at school, through friends, whatever the case might be.
Life's a chance, trust yourself and go for it.
2007-10-23 03:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by christyo58 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...and I don't think I really want to. I need to know someone in person before I have feelings for them. On line, it is just words typed on a screen and the person behind those words can be all sorts of strange and just filling in the details of what you want to hear at that time. Falling in love with someone in a forum like this would be insane.
2007-10-23 03:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have. Not from a chat room, but on-line anyway. I can't complain about meeting anyone on-line. Even if it doesn't work out, it's still better than meeting some drunk girl in a bar.
2007-10-23 03:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I met my current man online. We have been together for a year and things couldnt be better. The only thing about meeting someone online is you have to be completly honest with each other. I also have a co-worker who met his wife on a dating website.
2007-10-23 03:31:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have. Didn't fall in love tho. It is a very risky proposition this dating on line stuff. Met a lot of good nice solid people on here. You have to have a sixth sense about you or you could get BIT....be careful out there. Don't end up being a serial killers dream ......
EDIT: MAMA BEAR I do believe we met the same guy...I got one of his photos also. BIG..... lol from Greece?
2007-10-23 03:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by CHI CHI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
met some of the people I've chatted with and traded music with on another site a few different times. Always good. All older adults
2007-10-23 03:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by wizjp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...i have they emailed me on myspace..we chatted there for a few weeks..then i felt comfortable enough and gave them my email address conversed there a couple weeks and finally decided. We should start talking to each other and it progressed from there. We met up after a couple months of talking and its been on and very excellent since then April to be exact.
2007-10-23 03:32:05 · answer #11 · answered by storeetjdjay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋