they have been married for 9 yrs...had kids and she has been lygated 3 years ago after the last child...One night,the husband made loved to her,and he pulled his ***** out of her ******jst after It was almost coming out...She ignored it for the 1st time....It happened again for the 2nd time.This time,she asked him why does he have to pull it out?She's been Lygated for years,the fact that,he's been releasing it inside every time,and they have both doing that for 2 1/2 years,after the Lygation has been done...And why the sudden changed?So she did asked him why?Husband answered,It slipped accidentally!(she saw him,blushng a little).She,ws jst quiet..But,It happened again in the 3rd time!And when she asked him again,he answered,It feels much better to take it out and comes outside...What!!!?Is he serious about this?I mean would u Guy's even feel of doing that,coz u think,it's more exciting??and dn't evn bother about what the wife wld think of?any advice on this?All husband w/ lygated wife?
2007-10-23 03:26:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
mu hubbie is dictating this asnwer as I write. Not No but He-- no does it feel better to pull out and ejacuate. Reminds him of high school not wanting to get the girl pregnant and he hated it. Hubbies opinion just an opinion) this man is having an affair or is sleeping with multiple partners and has become used to this oull out method again as a means of attemting to avoid an unwanted pregnancy. He would ot just forget that it is not necessary with wife. Not only that if he is using this method with another owman or women it is a sign that he is not only being unfaithful BUT HE IS NOT EVEN SHOWING HIS WIFE THE RESPECT OF PROTECTING HER LIFE BY WEARING CONDOMS WHEN HE CHEATS. hire a private investigator or do some investigating on your own-your friend should because this scumbag is bopping at least one other woman
2007-10-23 03:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by dreamwhip 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The more serious problem here is the existence of a "friend" who not only meddles in what is essentially a private marital issue, but chose to broadcast the details over the Internet in front of strangers. As the cliche goes, "..with friends like these..."
2007-10-23 12:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by exsft 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 14?
2007-10-23 10:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not that unusual, depending on the umm "configuration" of the female, it actually can feel much better to explode freely, than to have the explosion muffled by the confined quarters..
That being said, the guy should be straight with his wife and let her know his preferences and be willing to discuss what feels better for him,, he must also consider her feeling and learn what feels best for her.
2007-10-23 10:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by TommyBoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is something he wants to do but is afraid to tell his wife about... Some guys like to do that ON their partners.. It really isnt too big of a deal, but they really do need to sit down and have a serious conversation if it is bugging her, who knows it may be a whole new doorway into some fun stuff.. But if it isnt fun for both, it could cause problems.. Good Luck!!
~FYI - I think you are a good friend to help your buddy out like this, and I am glad she has a good support system! Ignore those who tell you to "MYOB", unless your friend askes you to do so. Its not like your mentioning names or anything, Once again.. Good Luck!!
2007-10-23 10:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by christineth1 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What the hell is LYGATED. It is a funny sort of question as I cannot see what the question really is. It might help if you asked the question in real English and not some mixture of text talk and slang expressions.
2007-10-23 10:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by ANF 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds hokey to me. Sounds like he is getting it on the side and is used to pulling out there.....I would be suspicious. I don't know anyone who prefers to c*m outside rather than inside... maybe wanna watch it once in a while....but every time, after yrs of not....hmmm
2007-10-23 10:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by Paul 'n St. Louis 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, that is a bit odd, especially if he has to lie about it to her. I can see wanting to do it once in a while for a change of pace, or to maybe shoot it on her boobs, etc. But it really doesn't make sense to me.
2007-10-23 10:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible I guess if for some reason he likes to watch his orgasm as a turn on, but other than a mental / visual thing, I can't say it feels better!
2007-10-23 11:08:46 · answer #9 · answered by maur911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happens behind closed doors,should remain behind closed doors. And what happens between husband and wife, should stay between husband and wife.
Anyway, to answer your question, if the wife doesn't mind. Then it is their business.
2007-10-23 10:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by angelic 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋