2007-10-23 02:41:14 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i find jewerly to be pretentious and useless...i'd rather have something i can use...
2007-10-23 02:47:50 · update #1
sounds like you are running the show, just buy your own and make him pay for it, tell it was a gift from him
MO
2007-10-23 02:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by MOs fishin 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Personally I'd rather have an engagement ring, or perhaps now an eternity ring. Much more personal than a car.
Can't you save up for your own car?
Not knowing your hubby, I'd say the best thing you could do is discuss it with him if you'd rather have a car than a ring. Assuming he's not a mind reader, that is. In which case he'll already know.
2007-10-23 02:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by spanner the stig 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
love if u didnt get a ring what makes u think your getting a car. sorry you may be in love and im happy for you but no ring. thats not on even if its a cheap ring its a sign of effection. so your husband now so you married so you had since getting engaged to getting married and your worried about a car now...lol you had better get the oven gloves on honey as thats not going to happen. as for what ever reason he didnt buy you your engagement ring sure its the same with the car inless there was extreme money problem then ill say sorry now im wrong. and maybe he will buy you one if you two have come into money now...good lkuck
2007-10-23 02:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by MissTee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. Unless you asked him for a car or something, I don't see him doing that at all. I did the proposing, didn't get a ring, and never got any kind of engagement present from him. Don't expect anything or you'll be disappointed.
2007-10-23 02:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by smartsassysabrina 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How long have you been married? Do you currently have a dependable car? Does he? What kind of car do you want? Do you provide any income for the two of you? Can you two afford a new expense? All things that factor in.
2007-10-23 02:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by Tina D 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course, he should get you a car. Go by the car lot and pick out the one you want and let him know.
2007-10-23 03:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by makeloans2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope, men have lost the need for the male provider "role"
Its all equal now. you wanted it you got it.
If anything I would expect him to receive the car from you for thinking that instead of a lifelong remembrance like the finger hugger, you would rather something that will rust away in 10 yrs.....jus like the marriage
2007-10-23 02:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by bumblemancan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
probably not. and besides, once you are married if you money is together, everything you buy is really together. think about this more deeply.
if he buys you a present it comes out of the money you both have to spend.
you should talk to him about your desire for a car.
you're very independent and you took the initiative to propose, he will likely to expect you to take the initiative on other things you want.
no, don't wait for him. talk to him.
2007-10-23 02:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by Sufi 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
my wife is very practical too!!
aghhhh I hate that! I am the romantic.
but nothing says I love you bettter than 60 car payments or put war monger petroleum fuel in me!
2007-10-23 03:17:37 · answer #9 · answered by bluesbrother74 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't count on it. Go buy yourself the car you want as well as a diamond ring and charge it to his credit card.
2007-10-23 02:44:58 · answer #10 · answered by mickey 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no, if you proposed and didn't get a ring you should be the one buying him a car for saying yes.
2007-10-23 02:44:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋