well i m a gay boss, i like one of my friend a lot, he is straight, one day i told him about my sexualety and told him that i like him a lot,later on he joined me as an employee or can say partner to my business, he care for me and love me , i love him a lot, every thing is fine and well going, but with the time, i m getting so so much possesiv about him, i cant stay with out him,..... well i know he is straight, .........he never get irretated by this also, but i want to stop my self. i want him always to be with me ......., not just for one night stand... even we both understand our relaction well......we do physicals also......what should i do to make our relaction more strong.............
2007-10-23 02:36:00 · 9 answers · asked by math lab models 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think you should abandon this pursuit. In other words, forget about having this person as a lover. He could be setting you up to later accuse you of sexual harassment (a lawsuit, with court.) The emphasis should be on the professional relationship (the working situation), and not a personal, intimate relationship. If you do continue with this, it is very, very possible that you will have many regrets later on.
2007-10-23 03:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by SB 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's straight, I don't see this progressing to anything other than a platonic relationship. Granted some platonic relationships can inspire deep emotions, but you mentioned that you want him 'not just for one night stand'... I assume you want lots of sex (good for you) but with him, hold the brakes.
I didnt quite understand the exact context of 'im a gay boss'... do you mean you're his boss, and the straight guy works for you?
Red flags all over.
You have a lopsided power equation.
If you persist, you won't know if he's with you because
1. he's afraid of you and what you can do if he doesnt follow your wishes
2. he might be using you just to get ahead at work
3. he might flaunt it to other co-workers which leads to...
4. the other employees will be disgruntled and if they decide to take action, they can because...
5. isn't this a form of sexual harrassment?
Please think this through carefully. I may have gotten the context wrong. I hope so.
2007-10-23 02:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by Joeyboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although Mr. Jello's response was rude, it was also correct.
You're the "boss" not their friend. You need to be in control of what is appropriate at the work place and I'll tell you right now, you're on a the wrong path!
Back off, leave your straight employee alone! You're asking for NOTHING BUT TROUBLE!
2007-10-23 02:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by DEATH 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to be very kind to him love will grow .
You may eventually get to embrace and kiss
Even in Ancient times partnerships were cemented by relationships Alexander the Great . Richard the Lion heart
2007-10-23 06:17:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With your spelling and grammar, how did you get to be the boss of anything? Let me guess, you work for the State? That's where the terminally useless go!
2007-10-23 04:52:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.....ok?
i dont understand y ppl have to attack u....ingore these morons
ok ....if he is STR8 then u should move on ...sry hun but u just gonna end up being hurt
if he's bicurious then that's different ....but idk it sounds like he's not
so yea....go out and meet other guys
im sry but there's nothing u can do abt that....
if u meet someone else maybe these thoughts will go away....
oh and just because u r the boss does not mean u can't be friends with your emplooyes ...ingore the idiots that say that
and no there is no sexual harrasement ...wtf would these ppl smoking when they wrote their answers?
2007-10-23 05:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just opened yourself to a sexual harassment lawsuit.
If he has a good lawyer, he may never have to work again.
2007-10-23 02:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Jello 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
hes straight move on ok ur gnna lose him if u try toi make him bi or gay
2007-10-23 02:40:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what is a relaction?
2007-10-23 02:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by Felani Perez 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋