Our friend has been going out with this boy for about 3 months now and although we thought we could bear him, we can't.
He only had like one friend before and now he ditched him and spends all hsi time with us in our group.
Whether it's walking to school, sitting down in the canteen, hanging out at friends houses or even in PE lessons, he is ALWAYS there, attatched to her.
The worst part is there relationship is really rocky and they are always falling out, yeah he doesnt go away, so you always have to tip-toe around him and cant say what you're thinking, just becasue he's there.
WE ARE IN DESPERATE NEED OF HELP !! ANY SUGGESTIONS WELCOME ! NO MATTER HOW MEAN !
Thank - You !
xxx
2007-10-22 23:21:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
omg i'm in a situation just like that!
I say don't pussy foot about, say what you feel! Is he really gay a misserable right? well my friends bf is, and tbh she'll expect you to be there when it all goes down the plug hole so tell hew how you feel, and explain how much it's hurting you! i'm sure you'll figure something out ;)
good luck
2007-10-23 08:59:58 · answer #1 · answered by sophie_kay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably best not to say anything yet, otherwise your friend will think it is you and fall out with you. It happens all the time seriously. You should just wait, no matter how annoyin he is, one day your friend will realise how annoyin he is and finish with him, THEN you explain to her how you felt about him, she will probably say "why didnt you tell me?" but you know she wud have been upset if you said wen they wer together. Besides, does he make your friend happy? If he does, shouldnt you just feel happy that your friend is happy?
2007-10-23 06:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sugarplumfairy89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not offence but this isnt about you its really about your friend , i know what u mean though cause im in a similar situation . the best thing i would advise is to ask your friend to have a word with him . ask her when you all hang out can he go with his own mates , or can he just give her some space with her friends . if she really likes him then you have to be careful how you say it to her . as she might be offended , good luck
2007-10-23 06:27:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait if you are a real friend .? In friendship there is no bondage so let friends to fly .If u are waitiing with care your friend will come back to u.
2007-10-23 06:42:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care for your friend, you will need to tolerate him until she gets tired of him. You could however, talk to her about how you feel.
2007-10-23 06:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋