2007-10-22 23:09:55 · 9 answers · asked by havah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are several reasons you should find another path to follow.
If she's cheated on you once, she sure is heck is going to do it again, knowing she can get away with it.
If she has little to no respect for you then, the marriage is lost, without respect, there can be no love.
Without honesty there is no love, without love there can be no relationship.
You may see a consular and hope for the best but, for what your saying, I think it's a waste of time.
Are there children involved and how old. Your state of affairs, finances, etc. All this come into the question for obvious reasons.
I would have a serious "sit-down" with her, if she's willing, and find out what her intentions were, if they're falling apart, then ask her if she wants a divorce. This is maybe what she's after.
2007-10-22 23:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
IGNORE UNDERNEATH ANSWER because that would help no one least of all you.
Do you have children with her? IF you do they need to be thought of and the best option for them.
But if your unhappy you need to fix it.
Don't let another person destroy your chances at happiness. If you let negative people remain in your life then you set a path which will only lead to destruction and heartache. If the issue is beyond solving then it's time to get rid of the destructive force in your case your wife. It may be hard and long but in the end once your rid of these negative forces you can move on to a path that will lead you to happiness.
Whatever you do, remember you need to remain positive and faithful to yourself.
I wish you all the best.
Good luck in any decision you make.
2007-10-22 23:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Confront her with everything you found out then leave her. She's just going to keep being unfaithful to you and never tell you the truth. Plus your going to have trouble trusting her again and its not worth putting yourself threw that. There is plenty of other women out there looking for a good man. And she is not one of them. Good luck =]
2007-10-23 01:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ღ♥Alisa♥ღ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she isn't willing to come clean and acknowledge it, theres not much hope in restoring things. why put yourself through all this hurt. if she admitted it she would have to face it and make changes one way or the other. but she is sitting on the fence here, unable to move one way or the other. betrayal is hard to get past, but if they aren't willing to deal with it, and do whats right, theres really no reason to stay with her, as things won't change until she realizes she needs to change them.
2007-10-22 23:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think she is cheating and want to catch her. Go to this site they will help you.
http://www.cheaters.com
2007-10-22 23:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by Red Rose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once a cheat always a cheat , I would divorce her
2007-10-23 00:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
place the business end of a gun gently behind her left ear ... and pull the trigger
2007-10-22 23:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce her.
2007-10-22 23:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DTB (dump that *****)
2007-10-23 03:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋