It's wrong
It's unhealthy
It won't work
How do you let it go?
2007-10-22 21:44:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh dear...i know my answer is useless but if you could ...try not to think of this person and do something to divert your emotion to something else.
2007-10-22 22:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by queenofheart 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just do. You think of other things. You realize that it is over or never going to happen or whatever and you move on. You realize that this person and this situation doesn't deserve any more time or energy and that it is in the past. You must realize that before you want to forget him/her. Once you want to forget, you begin to think of other things and other people and other places and ideas. Sometimes this is a conscious thing at the beginning and there is nothing wrong with that. But you let it go by first realizing that you need to let it go and wanting to let it go.
2007-10-23 04:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by swimeveryday 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to forget. Love itself is beautiful, do not resist it. Change it into a good energy. We're taught to be nice to people, why not with the one we love too. You just have to do the right thing or what you have to do, and don't act on love if it's wrong. Forgive them if you have to. Live your life and one day pain will go away, and you have nothing to regret later. Good luck.
2007-10-23 05:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by Zara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with lolly pop - you never really forget them - life just takes you to other places and you manage to keep going. In time another face will take their place, and hopefully ease the pain and emptiness they've left behind. When you stumble and fall ..." you just pick yourself up, dust yourself off....start all over again !!" good luck.....
2007-10-23 05:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By becoming a normal member of society again. Use your time to help others, work towards your degree, work on your home....anything but stay stuck in the nothing of unrequited love.
You have to do this to get better.
2007-10-23 05:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go and get a brand new someone to fall in love with and the old someone will be just that. don't waste your time with something that just won't work.
2007-10-23 04:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by thom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never really forget.You just go on with your life without them.
2007-10-23 04:52:03 · answer #7 · answered by lollypop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By realizing that you deserve better. Grow up.
2007-10-23 05:23:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damned if I know. When you find out let me know also. Good luck.
2007-10-23 04:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋