Of course no one regrets having their children, but knowing what you know now, do you wish you waited longer or started sooner?
PLEASE give me your comments and your reason. It’s very important to me!
Thank you very much!!
2007-10-22 17:13:17 · 18 answers · asked by Eternalsilence 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Just wondering why there are some thumbs down happening here? There is no wrong answers with my question! Anyways thank you for the answers so far! =)
2007-10-22 17:42:28 · update #1
I was 20 and I wish i could of waited, even being 20 seems young.
I love my daughter, but it would of been nice to be a little older, who knows maybe if I "had" waited then I would be saying I wish I was younger with my first
SOmetimes the grass is greener on the other side and then other times it just looks that way until you get there
2007-10-22 17:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by CookFrNW 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I was 20 years old. I wish I would have waited and picked a better father for my kids. You see when your young and think that your in love you never realize how your choice as a youth affect you when your an adult. I wish I could waited until I got with the guy that I am with now because he will make a wonderful father and that's what a kid need. Not some dead beat who ain't there for them. But I will tell you I wish I could change there father I don't regret having them or the age I had them at hope this helps.
2007-10-23 04:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jackquellyn w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had my first child when i was 19. I now have two children and only 22. Knowing what i know now, yes i would have waited just a few more years so that i could have had a bit more of a life. I am young i want to go out and do things experience more and just do things normal 22 year olds would be doing.I never have time to myself and think i may have coped better in certain situations if i was a little older. But i love my children more than words could explain and don;t regret having them at all.
Hope that helps.
2007-10-23 00:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by top_mumsy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
23. I was 23 when I got pregnant. I am glad that I did it at this time and not any sooner. I had a good job and a good home and car at this time in my life. If I would of done it earlier things would be alot different right now. Don't get me wrong I am 25 now and I now have a beater for a car that my hubby drives to his job because I don't work any longer. We now rent a home from my cousin and my dad lives here too. So I am not sure when it would of been best to have a baby but I can tell you I don't regret a minute of it.
2007-10-23 00:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by Megan E 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I had my first child at 19.Sometimes i do wish i waited longer because i could've got much more done with school and everything.I am 20 right now and have 2 kids but I love every moment of it because without them then i wouldnt have become such an adult with a house and everything.
2007-10-23 00:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by dmnm 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i was 17 with my first, 19 with my second, 20 with my third, 22 with my fourth and 23 with my soon to be fifth. i dont regret having my babies at all but yes i wish i waited till about now to start having my kids. (knowing they would be the same kids lol) like a lot of other teenage mum's i missed my friends and going out. i did later graduate when i was 20.
2007-10-23 00:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by crissy_d_4 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I got pregnant with my first when i was 17years old. I was a senior in high school. I did graduate, but I wish I would have waited so I could have went to college and got a career and then got married. I didn't have a stable life then. I'm paying for the mistakes i made then.
*I just wanted to add... I don't regret it. I love my babies! But I do wish I would have waited!
2007-10-23 00:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine00328 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I had my first baby at 27. Looking back on it now I guess I would have liked to have had her a few years earlier -- maybe like 24 or 25. No regrets, though.
2007-10-23 00:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by Vicky L 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I was 18 and I glad i had my little girl because she my world. But I do have my family no more because Im white and my baby is mix. But I get much more then my little girl i get a big family from her dad family. We just had the 2nd baby Im 27. I love both of my kids with all my heart and would not change for no one.
2007-10-23 00:26:07 · answer #9 · answered by Julia 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i was pregnant at 15 and had my first child at 16. Knowing what i know now i wouldn't change a thing. I love being a mum and watching my 2 little girls growing up
good luck to youxxx
oh by the way my oldest is now 4 so whoever gave me a thumbs down needs to lighten up. at least i don't live off welfare and never have
2007-10-23 00:18:53 · answer #10 · answered by mum to 3 precious little girls!! 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋