I have this bff that is having a halloween party. She wants me to come but I don't know if I want to. She's invited people I barely hang out and hardly know. Not to mention that all of them are popular! Or most of them, anyway. There is only 1 other girl that is going and she's funny but part of the "in" crowd? What do I do?
2007-10-22 13:42:17 · 21 answers · asked by sexysportsbabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ooh i know wat u mean ...awkward ...
talk to ur friend see if u can bring a friend that u know
2007-10-22 13:44:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you're in, like, middle school?
Go. If you don't go into with a worrisome or pessimistic outlook, you'll most likely have a great time. Don't worry if these girls are part of the "in" crowd - that doesn't or, at least, shouldn't mean anything.
They are people just like you. You have just as much a right to be there as they do - probably more seeing as how it's YOUR 'bff.'
2007-10-22 20:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by Grouchy Boulder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious? a party is to HAVE FUN, BE YOURSELF, DO WHAT YOU WANTT!!!! Think of this...you'd be having free food! And I'm sure there'll be music on for you to listen too...In all seriousness....socializing is awesome. You get to learn things about this so called "popular" crowd, and they'll learn some things about you, and you might find things out that you didn't know, and maybe even a "Hm, I never knew that...wow."..........go have fun ...for YOU. And if you feel uncomfortable and want to go home, just tell her you're getting a migraine and the music isn't helping, and that you wanna go relax at home. :-) ENjoy!
2007-10-22 20:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by contrabandamanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and make some new friends chances are if you dont try to hard at talking to them you should be friends. But then again dont be a wallflower and avoid them, its a party live it up!
Nothing starts a conversation better than a question maybe inquire about where they got their clothing from, dont let anyone including your self be left out. But dont try to hard too! Its the key.
2007-10-22 20:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend wants you to go, what do you have to lose? Go and become acquainted with new people. That is the best way to make your friend circle grow. You can always leave if you don't have fun, but I am sure you will enjoy yourself. Get an exciting costume and be yourself.
2007-10-22 20:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by VIVIA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go,maybe she is trying to introduce you to the "in crowd" people so that you all can be friends.However she might be planning on using you as a fool to better impress her "in crowd" friends.If you do go wear a conservative costume and keep on your toes for any unusual behavior by any of the other guests.
2007-10-22 20:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by hjbergel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's your bff, you should go. It's always good to meet and hang out with new people. If you don't go you might regret it and upset your friend.
2007-10-22 20:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by Julie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to me a few days ago. for the holloween party i dressed up in a funny paris hilton outfit, and just went with the flow. it turned out to be a n awesome party.
2007-10-22 21:36:46 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Smartie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should! If you want to be a little popular, and have more friends! But, if you want, to. But you should decide if it's more important to go, or not. YOU DECIDE!! It'll be ok if you dont go, she'll understand, this happened to me once, i went, and i got a little more popular!!!
2007-10-22 20:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go, spread your wings, enjoy yourself. Who cares if everyone else is in the "in" crowd. Get a cute costume and pretend you own the place. You are just as good as anyone else!!!!!!
2007-10-22 20:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by Darby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go its your best friend just hang with her and talk more with the other ppl thats how u have more friends dnt just hang out with the same one all the time...and if your not havin fun just leave but at least give it a chance first.
2007-10-22 20:47:09 · answer #11 · answered by Mar-Mar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋