Each time i get fingered its less uncomfortable but it should feel good...
2007-10-22 13:27:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
If your vagina is not sufficiently lubricated it will be uncomfortable. Also if your partner is a bit rough - that ain't a whole lot of fun either and if he has not cut his finger nails in a while it could be even less fun.
I'm really glad I don't know your age - so humor me - I'm going to say your 18.
The best thing to do - is when you have some alone time - masturbate. See how you like to be touched and what feels good to you. Men don't own a clitoris or vagina - they are not born knowing how to touch a woman so that it feels good. Sometimes a woman just has figure out for herself what she likes and then show her partner or tell him what she likes.
And this works two ways - men have to experiment themselves so they can tell their female partners how they like to be touched.
2007-10-22 13:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Boots 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the fingerer needs to learn how to do it better. The opening of the vagina has more nerve endings than anywhere else, that's one place, also the g-spot, which is in about two inches and on the upper side and feels like a small rough patch, And of course, the clitoris. That is what should really be fingered, and penetration is just an add on to that. You can have a wonderful orgasm with no penetration whatsoever. Bam, no more discomfort!
2007-10-22 13:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some people fingering is very comfortable, but soome people it isn't. Some people like to use toys and some don't like anything. Depends Virgins r sometimes not used to it.
2007-10-22 13:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you aren't lubricated enough when you are fingered. Try using lube and see if that gets better. Or maybe he's too rough. Try slowing it down a bit.
2007-10-22 13:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by Igby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋