My boyfriend and I keep having sex, but without protection, sooner or later I know I'm going to get pregnant. How do I tell him to buy some damn condoms?
2007-10-22 12:52:16 · 80 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Buy them yourself. Unless you want a little kid running around in a year.
2007-10-22 12:55:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Withhold sex from him...as simple as that...then he'll be forced to get condoms. Whatever you do, keep the responsibility on his shoulders. If he's willing to have sex with no protection, he should be brave enough to go into a store and buy some. Don't play Russian Roulette with this guy. Sooner or later it's going to happen, get pregnant, I mean. Why not later? Confront your boyfriend continually about this and don't back off and hopefully he's not too dense to see that he is acting irresponsibly. And I think you have to be responsible too. It takes two to tango. I'm sure he's not forcing you to lay down.
2007-10-22 13:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by levar m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go buy the condoms and tell him "No glove, No love" and then you do not have sex with him unless he has on a condom. You just do not allow someone else to put your future and your life at risk. He won't use protection after you have asked him to do so? Wht does that tell you? How much does he care about you and what you want if he will ignore so basic and necessary a request. Now you need to think why you want such a selfish jerk as a boyfriend
2007-10-22 12:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should just buy some and surprise him. Condoms are good but not the most reliable method of contraception although they do offer you a degree of protection from sexually transmitted disease like chlamydia etc. It could be that he doesn't fancy asking for the condoms at the chemist although you can also buy them from machines in toilets. You really need to get this sorted the risk of pregnancy is too high to take. Even if you went to a Family Planning clinic they would give you a Supply of condoms and a lot of sound advice.
2016-05-24 21:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by latrice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum... Use a condom or don't have sex... also go get on birth control or some other protection. If you aren't wanting to get pregnant they have more ways for a female to be careful and I would start looking into those ways if he is going to be a jerk about it. Some guys are just that way and it will have to be up to you to take the precautions.
2007-10-22 12:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by shay_na19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show yourself some self respect. In New Zealand it costs $3 for 144 condoms so its not like it would bankrupt him. No sex until he does, then again not using one to begin with shows he is obviously not able to process the possible consequences of his actions. Perhaps you should get rid of him, go for a smarter more common sensed man. It is about self respect, take charge and if he will not come to the party send him packing.
2007-10-22 12:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend, How about telling him to get lost. He is disrespecting you, your safety, your health and maybe even your baby. It is likely, with or without birth control, that someone will eventually become pregnant or get a disease when unmarried people tempt themselves by being alone with one another. Get info. and support at a pregnancy resource center, which you can find by googling optionline, or call 1800afamily. Take good care of your baby if you are pregnant. Sincerely, Runner
2007-10-22 13:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just tell him that if he doesn't use protection then you will not have sex with him. Or you don't have to rely on him for it, but you can use protection on your own. Don't you think that would be better?
Because even if you tell him whatever, he may say he's using it but he may not be... So the safest way to go is abstinence, the second safest is to use protection on yourself and don't wait for him to use it...after all you'll be the one that will suffer the consequences.
2007-10-22 12:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by Yanny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy the damn box yourself and tell him NO SEX untill he uses one and if he doesn't comply you should dump him for not caring. If you don't YOU are the one who will be sorry.
Why do you keep having sex with him if he's not using a condom? If you wind up pregant he's not going to be the only one to blame.
2007-10-22 12:57:48 · answer #9 · answered by shywink 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Either he wears the condom or he gets no sex from you. He'll get the picture. And if he cheats, he was never worth your time anyway. At least then you won't end up pregnant OR with an STD.
2007-10-22 12:56:05 · answer #10 · answered by Punkie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could tell him 'no sex until you start using condoms' and follow through on it. Or you could put yourself on 'the pill'. Personally i'd suggest both because condoms can and do fail, even if it's relatively rare you never know when you'll get the pack with holes poked in 'em.
2007-10-22 12:55:03 · answer #11 · answered by Ian F 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋