my bf wents me to do a lap dance for him it his birthday how do do it?

Answer 1

Best thing to do is turn on any hip/hop or rap video. Not being funny...really most of the moves you would imagine are probably in those videos. You can probably also find some on youtube.com

Answer 2

I can see where the people are coming from that are concerned that this is degrading. It all depends on the relationship you have with him. When my husband and I were dating I would have done a lap dance for him if he wanted me too. And now being married to him I would too. As long as your relationship is good and strong there is nothing wrong with it. It is just part of having fun with eachother. If I ever did one for my husband I am pretty sure that I would probably dance in front of him with layers of clothes on and strip and dance to the music seductively and then move closer to him and dance over his lap a little bit and then I would probably straddle him and sway and grind on his lap. I know that would create a rise in him. So, anyhow, I hope this helps.

Answer 3

first, turn 18

then, share common likes/dislikes as your boyfriend

then, have an open relationship where you feel more comfortable talking about sexual issues with your boyfriend than you do with total strangers. . . ahhahhaa!

but i'll get off the high horse now

here's an idea - first try out phone sex - it could be easier for you both to discuss your fantasies w/out having to look at each other - or even be in the same area

have him talk dirty about what he "sees" a topless dancer doing to him - >and take notes< - while you're doing the "oh ya baby ya" type of garbage actually write down some things he's describing

and I hope he is willing to do something similarly compromising which is satisfying for YOU -

sharing like that is key to healthy relationships IMHO - so YOU're not the only one always doing something for HIM

(and severely arching your back, and shoulders back, and wearing high heels always helps - LOL)

Answer 4

He wants you to do what the girls at the stag parties and boobie bars do.... You get skanty clad and sit on his lap first with your back to him than sit facing him jirating all the time... It will turn him on to the point of getting down and doing it all the way... Have fun... Grant M in Pennsylvania

Answer 5

easy , well first of all find a song, thats really sexy and turns you on, and one in which you feel you can comfortably dance really sexy to , like, i guess, don't cha , pussy cat dolls, push the buttons, sugarbabes, or maneater, nelly furtardo,

then go out buy some nice lingerie,
and then with the lap dancing just let it be natural , do watever you feel comfortable i'm sure your bf is gonna like it regardless

Answer 6

Carmen Electra has a strip tease aerobics series on dvd i think it might be the third or fourth or fifth dvd that teaches the lapdance.

Answer 7

don't sit on him but get REALLY close and just sway your hips back and forth and kinda front to back, and move from a squatting position to a standing position while your doing the swaying thing, and then after a few minutes turn around and see how "hard" he is!!!

Answer 8

Just be yourself and go with the flow of the music, but be very sexy about the whole thing and let him worship you. Also leave him wanting more when you finish.

Answer 9

u can rent a video to learn. u may be embarrassed but ask the clerk and he may know a good one, they usual do.
just think of it this way. the clerks heard almost anything already anyhow.

Answer 10

Dont do it. He is your best friend, isnt that a little gross to you. Plus dont degrade yourself. He would be treating you like a piece of meat. Im a guy, and I have a very successful relationship because I respect my girlfriend. She deserves to be treated with modesty. Dont trash yourself.