2007-10-22 10:11:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I keep most things to myself. I think its ok. Like certain feelings I don't tell people. But if you are having like sucidial feelings yes you do need to tell someone. I don't really tell my mom how I feel because she doesn't really understand what's going on with school and life for a teen now. I think its best to tell people some of your feelings like get a friend u can trust to keep all of your secrets not someone that will blab ohh so and so cuts because they are depressed. Hope you find your answer...
2007-10-22 11:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep what inside? Your emotions? Your feelings?
It doesn't seem like you're that "strong and confident" if you don't allow anyone to see the real you. Strong and confident people are vulnerable, too and allow others to see them for who they really are. Perhaps you're using that as a cover up to hide your true feelings about yourself? People who keep their emotions bottled up aren't strong or confident. They're weak and self concious.
2007-10-22 17:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, you can do that. But you're going to be really lonely.
We humans were meant to pair off in couples, with children, with tribes to provide support and counsel. If you don't open your heart to someone, they won't open theirs, and your a lonely bachelor out driving a bucket of balls at 5 am every morning.
I'd rather run the risk of being hurt (and I have been very hurt) in order to embrace the good things in the people around me, to be part of a community, a fellowship. I need that to survive.
Take care,
TX Mom
2007-10-22 17:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok, but not the best. I used to be that way, no one knew anything about me. You should try and find someone who you can trust and tell anything to. The person who I tell everything to, is my boyfriend. I thought holding it all in, would make people think I was strong, but it didnt. It hurts to do this. I really hope you find someone to talk to, it'll make things so much easier on you.
2007-10-22 17:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by Small♥Town♥Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did anyone hurt your feelings for you to feel this way?
It's ok to feel this way but hiding who you are will block the people away and even the ones who loves you,so this isn't a very good idea.Be yourself and don't worry about what others think of you because if they love you they will accept you for who you are.
2007-10-22 17:34:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, even a strong and confident girl such as yourself needs someone to confide in, so I'd say no. A really great saying I once heard is, "You're only as sick as your secrets." If no one knows you at all, that's a lot of secrets!!
2007-10-22 17:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by curiousjeunefille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've survived, but its not a good idea and its not fun. You eventually just wish you had someone to talk to but you never let anyone know you and you never have anyone when you need someone to talk to. So no.
2007-10-22 17:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by milan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On Yahoo! Answers? Yes. That is fine. DO NOT put your pictures or personal info on the net.
2007-10-22 17:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by LOLs @ Everything 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a lonely way to go through life. I don't recommend it.
2007-10-23 10:37:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure... if that makes you happy right now. but someday you may find that there are some ppl worth sharing with.
cheers!
2007-10-22 17:17:39 · answer #10 · answered by michael 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋