For us girls?
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2007-10-22 09:56:46 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Meaning sex?
2007-10-22 10:39:59 · update #1
Yes. But it's over quick. Well, that's assuming you are a yound person or teenager and will be doing it with a teen age boy. Trust me, he won't last long. ha! sorry guys
2007-10-22 10:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by wbmgnow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it probably will hurt while he puts it in for the first time, but after a few minutes you will be fine, just a little sore after. It will get easier. You will probably enjoy your first time despite the initial pain (which is like a burning pain)
1. Make sure you are entirely ready, and want to loose your virginity to this person - you have to trust them ABSOLUTELY because it is only with their consideration of your feelings that pain will be minimised.
2. Tell the person that you are a virgin - get them to take it slowly and gently, and make sure they listen to you when you tell them to give you a rest or whatever.
3. Get excited before hand with some foreplay
4. Use condoms - make sure you know how to use these in advance.
5. Buy some lubricant to use - ensuring that it says its safe to use with condoms, you can get this in any chemist.
Good luck - enjoy! Peacex
2007-10-22 10:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Faith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your first time hurts no matter what the gentleman is packing. Don't rush into anything that you are not ready for. I know it might seem like the thing to do but it is your virginity and once you go all the way there is no turning back. You can not become a virgin again so think twice before you make that choice.
2007-10-22 10:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by Sunny Days 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone's different. For some, it's painful, they may have some bleeding and tenderness afterwards, and for some other girls, they may have zero bleeding/pain/etc. It all just depends on your body.
Your vagina has a very thin layer of tissue covering the opening, which is called the hymen. This is what may cause some pain during sex for the very first time. When you have sex and bleeding occurs, that's what's referred to as "popping your cherry." But, this tissue can be broken through sports, bike riding, and even using a tampon. If the hymen is broken before your first sexual encounter, sex is less likely to be painful and you're less likely to bleed. To make sex more comforatable the first time, make sure you're aroused or use a lubricant.
2007-10-22 10:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It can if you're not ready to have intercourse. Focus on the foreplay. Put it off until you're really wet and opened up. I guess for me, it stung a little bit and I bled alot. Take a long soothing bath afterwards to relieve the stress on your body. You will probably remember the more thrilling parts and forget the pain.Don't let anyone mess with your heart or your head. Be careful.
2007-10-22 10:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's different for everybody. My first time wasn't bad at all..my hymen had already been broken long before my first time, but I actually found it more enjoyable then painful. The first few seconds may be a little discomforting, but in my experience, it wasn't bad at all. My first time was also with my boyfriend who I care very much for, so if your doing it with someone you care about, it makes it a whole lot better.
2007-10-22 10:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by mariamcdgll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurt me A LOT... i had about 4 attempts on 4 seperate occasions before we got anywhere (with the same man by the way!!!) But then, i've spoken to other women who say it was no big deal for them. So it really depends on the individual.
Good luck, and do it safely!
2007-10-22 10:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by MiniMed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesnt, people who say it does just like to scare and make believe they're all grown up and have gone through stuff. ok so truth is, it can hurt a little, but only a little - more UNCOMFORTABLE than actuall pain. and besides, its a nice sort of uncomfortable, so i wouldnt worry about it. After my first time, i wondered what all the fuss had been about! x
2007-10-22 10:03:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple answer is yes
The pain can be reduced by making sure you are relaxed and aroused beforehand.
Once you have sex a few times this fades and your body gets used to being stretched
2007-10-22 10:28:59 · answer #9 · answered by Temperance in flight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, from what I've been told, it is the most painful experience you will have untill you have a baby. (Ha, you would have to go though so much pain twice!).
I believe you are talking about the 1st time you have sex, right?
2007-10-22 10:00:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋