how could you not keep yourself from pulling her to you and making love to her ??
2007-10-22 09:40:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Sorry, for any women who wish to answer this question......vice versa situation then!
2007-10-22 09:41:11 · update #1
And for any who say that the hubby would crack your nose or something, think of how much you love her anyways!
2007-10-22 09:42:14 · update #2
kill me??
maybe i am better off then!!
2007-10-22 10:13:25 · update #3
Your dream again last night,huh?!
2007-10-22 09:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Welcome to the club! I have been in a few situations. The first was a guy who I was head over heels for. We were both in relationships but still had a sly weekend away a ew times a year. It all ended in tears....Then I fell for a great guy who I found out a year on he was engaged and getting married a year on. A few weeks ago a friend told me his feelings and pulled me in for a kiss. Now I'm the engaged one. It's all ended in tears too....Hmmm my advice is keep away from them! Someone will get hurt. It may be worth the crack on the nose but the life full of guilt isn't.....Sorry to put it so blunt...
2007-10-22 16:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by cestradoo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Boy, I felt dirty just looking at this question.
The guilt of having ruined two families would keep me from doing that. I mean an hour or so of fun and games might be nice, but the fact that her family and mine would be harmed is enough to keep me on the straight and narrow. Besides, I wouldn't worry about her husband taking swing at me. It's the lady I go to bed with every night that scares me. I could just see her super gluing my Willy to my leg in my sleep, or something like that.
Also, how would I ever be able to face my parents again after they found out why my family is done.
2007-10-22 16:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by SpaceMonkey67 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love her but have the sense to realise that she will never leave her husband for me.
So my love must be platonic not physical.
She knows how I feel about her and she also knows that she can come to me with any problems that she has without my being judgemental. Almost like a father figure.
Some things are meant to be this is NOT one of them.
2007-10-22 17:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by Terry G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for me it was vice versa. i had to really keep a tight hold of myself because he wanted it too. the thing that kept me from doing it was that in 'real time' i felt a deep disgust about him -- you see if you're really in love you look up to that person and no cheap cheater is something to look up to really. so in a nutshell he killed it.
2007-10-22 16:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by sarah kay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the first thought you need to have is one what would happen to the marriage of said friend. second i know this sounds dumb or inconsiderate but what would you get out of it if you countinued on this path. speaking from personal experience its not worth it to get involved in this even though you love this person that much. you will find that she will turn more to her husband in the end and just lead you on.
2007-10-22 16:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by monkeymstr5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you 2 people on here? never mind. not sure but if she lives far enough away then you cant pull her anyway can you.
god this question is bit freaky.
your probably best to stay her friend or lose her altogether
2007-10-22 16:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by jeano x 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a difficult situation but in the past, it has happened to me and I ran away with so many mixed emotions. I don't regret it, I made peace with "myself".
2007-10-22 16:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bud, I'd crack a lot more than your nose.
2007-10-22 16:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same ,but his not married, and i have to find a lot of restraint to stop me from pulling him to me and loving him, and never letting him go
2007-10-22 16:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by mirrorbee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...sounding like a wind chime from the bullet holes could be rather interesting...but I could understand if you love a married woman.
2007-10-22 16:46:46 · answer #11 · answered by Just a guy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋