my husband does not know how to please me?

Answer 1

Then look for someone who knows how to please you.

Answer 2

Every woman is different and every woman likes different things. He will never know how to please you completely if you don't show him how. Talk with him and tell him what you like. Make a game out of it. Let him list 10 things he wants you to do to him and you list 10 things you want him to do to you. Put each set into a different jar and take turns pulling out the suggestions. Also, take turns acting them out :). When he trys to do something you suggest and isn't getting it quite right, just say..."like this baby" and guide him. When he sees how what he is doing is driving you out of your mind he will become very repetitive to what turns you on.
Why not watch some porn together and get each other in the mood? There are alot of different positions and kinky things to try on those videos.
Just do different things to spice you your love life and don't feel bad about taking the initiative. There has to be one partner who takes the bull by the horns and leads the way......your man will follow happily and soon when he becomes more confident he will take the lead.
Try this website www.lovingyou.com, it has some great ideas, games, poems, etc. There might be something there that gives you a spark!!!

Answer 3

It took about 14 years of marriage before we got it "right". Sex in our 20's was not that good, but now that we are in our 30's it is awesome, and getting better. Don't fret. Just keep it fun, be open-minded and practice alot! Sex is also a good way to work out, so until you figure it out, you can at least stay in shape!

Answer 4

Only you know your body, only you know what makes you feel pleased, only you know what you want done to you. Your husband is not a mind reader, unless you tell him what you like and what you want ... you will get what he can give ... sometimes ... not much.

Answer 5

It is your responsibility to let your husband know what you like and what you don't like. Tell him what turns you on and what doesn't.

Nobody is a mind reader, friend. Speak up or shut up about it.

Answer 6

If you have tried to tell him and that won't work, introduce a vibrator into the mix! It is a great additional and don't be ashamed to mention it to him!
A lot of men think they know what they are doing but most are clueless, us girls have to take matters into our own hands (literally) :)

Answer 7

Tell him what you like. Avoid saying "you don't do that well". That will get him second guessing his ability. Then he may not want to do whatever he was that you didn't like again. He may enjoy hearing you tell him the ways you enjoy being pleased.

Answer 8

why dont you tell him what you like? or show him? Damn why do women not say what they like and let there men think they are good in bed when they aint worth a ****, its called communication, if you dont speak then how will anyone know what you want

Answer 9

You got to be very sutil make sure you hint him on what you want by asking him what he likes and telling him what you like don't expect for him to get it right away but if you teach him he'll learn and you'll win.

Answer 10

Well unless he is psychic then he doesn't know. Some men don't take subtle hints either. You will more or less have to spell it out for him exactly what you like.

Answer 11

why dont u comfront the problem to him? tell him what bothers u. and work on it together! u never know if he has other things in mind other stress. so try not to pressure him too much. be gentle, and sweet about ur feelings.