If you're not ready now then you're doing the wise thing by not doing it to fit social norms. You may regret it when you're older but then again you may not. Hindsight is a wonderful thing but it's important to look at the 'now' and not always the future.
2007-10-22 08:50:45
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answered by Yummy♥Mummy 6
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Some people are perfectly happy and have no regrets about not having children. However, I remember about 20 years ago, there were several beautiful actresses that were very much into their careers and said they were not interested in having children. They have now all adopted children. You can't predict your feelings in the future. Don't just get married and have kids though because of the possibility you might have regrets in the future. Good luck.
2007-10-22 08:51:53
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answered by sparklerblu2 4
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Iam 33 & I dont plan on getting married or having kids either. I have said since I was 14 I never wanted kids. Still , I wonder if any 14 year old mothers would say the same?
But I dont want to be single forever but .....if that is the way life goes with me....
2007-10-22 08:56:56
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answered by Anonymous
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You probably will, but it won't be that tough, and you'll probably come to terms with it after menopause..
You may or may not regret never getting married, I'll tell you one thing though, it is going to hurt once you are too old to have kids, that's going to be a rough few years for you... or maybe not :) it may not hit you that hard ...
Good luck :)
EDIT - GEEGEE has a good point, some people regret having kids , my mom did and never let us forget it , so that's something to think about :)
2007-10-22 08:53:23
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answered by Undead 3
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No, that's your choice. I am the same age as you, 31 years old, however, I do want to get married and have kids. I just don't know who God has planned for me to marry or when it will happen. It is all pretty much in God's plan for all of us.
2007-10-22 08:49:44
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answered by blessedman 6
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I'm 50 been married 23 years but never had children, wasn't meant to be for me and do feel I have missed out in some respects, I think the choice is up to you what you want to do with your life and if marriage and babies aren't what you want then so be it, whether you'll regret it I just can't answer that.
2007-10-22 08:56:12
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answered by Anonymous
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You might. I would say it depends. Are you close to you family? Have any family around your age? What will you do when you are older and need help taking care of yourself, because you know longer have to ability to do so on your own? Most people rely on a spouse or child. These are all things you should think about. In the end, only you will know what is right for you. Good luck.
2007-10-22 08:49:25
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answered by NeLLie 4
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Perhaps, but some people who DO marry and have kids regret THAT when they're older, so it works both ways.
2007-10-22 08:50:18
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answered by GEEGEE 7
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Sounds like a lonely life to me. I'm divorced but I have my kids and I would not trade that for anything. If I would have known what I know now, I would have skipped the marriage and just had me a couple of kids!!! They are great!
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2007-10-22 08:52:32
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answered by ♥chicks♥ 5
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yes you will.a woman does all the suffering having a baby,but the joy you get looking at that tiny tot for the first time is something that will live with you for the rest of your life knowing that it is part of you.also your friends will get married,move away,and you be left a lonely old man
2007-10-22 09:32:23
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answered by ? 4
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