Parents don’t give youngsters Freedom?Invading privacy?Advising all the time?No trust? Don’t do this & that?

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What should parents do
What should youngsters do
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Answer 1

hi gEnTLe m@n....

I totally agree with you gentleman. Parents nowadays doesn't even give a single chance of freedom to children.

I know its not only parents fault. Youngsters faults is also there.

Parents snatch away their child privacy.

But we just simply cant put the blame on parents alone. Youngsters are doing all stupid things which ultimately leads them to no privacy and no trust.

I think neither any of the above should misuse their power.

I think both, children and parents should try to understand each others perspective and go according to it.....tc....sweet dreamz....bye....

*****dO W@tEvEr uR hE@rT $@yZ.....*****.

Answer 2

Children have a lot of freedom. Most of the time they do what they want, go where they want. If they get into problems then parents restrict their activities Parents should not invade a childs privacy, although sometimes it is nessacary to the childs welefare, if the child has fallen in with a bad crowd it is nessecary to find out as much as possible to pull them back into the family fold. In the US gangs are trying to take our children, we must then invade their privacy to ensure that they will have a better future than where they are heading. Trust is given until broken then it must be earned back. Advice is a suggestion to improve the direction the childs life, It is the parents responsibility to direct the child to do their best, to be their best. When a parent tell a child not to do something it is in the childs best interest. When we tell a child what to do, we are guiding them to learn responsibility and consequences of what may occur in their life by not doing as we said. (don't touch that stove, it's hot) ( don't take the car out tonight, its raining to hard, you could have an accident ) Children need to listen and learn. They need to understand that we want them to have a bright future. They should follow the parents advice. It is the best advice that they will get from anywhere.

Answer 3

Until my children are grown and ready to face the world, I will be telling them where they are allowed and not allowed to go, and when. And as far as for privacy, when they become a teenager, I will be searching in there draws and checking on them, it's only for there protection. My father will always say " you trust a snake, before you trust a teenager". I was raised very strict, and of course during the time I didn't like it at all, but now that I am a mother I understand and I am grateful that my father cared to protect me in every way he knew how, and I will be doing the same to my children. : )

Answer 4

if you are a child and living with your parents you are enjoying the most freedom in your life. your responsibilities are minimal also no rent,free food,and clothing. also in most cases a free chauffeur. as far as trust you have to earn it and as far as privacy, you are living in their home and their are no boundaries. as long as their is no abuse they are responsible for you and they need to know what is going on with your life to keep you safe in this dangerous world today. remember this when you become a parent, it's the toughest job there is and parents have very little freedom or privacy for that matter.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

As long as I am providing a shelter, food, clothing and am responsible for them, they don't have the rights of an adult. When they turn 18, move out and make their own living then they can make their own rules.

Answer 7

i feel the same but when i thought about it, you cant blame parents. it during this time children feel crazy and all that and need to be controlled. like its the best time to fall in love and all that and its really tempting and hard for them to controll themselves. so someone is needed to controll them!!!! they would feel annoyed or irriated by their parent as i do but this is the time of life whre you mould yourself up for future life. so we should be moulded right like you yourself were moulded Gentleman!!!!!! if moulded right, life would a the great success!!!!! and because we dont know how to do it ourselves our parents are helpng us which we may see as irritation and annoying due to hormones!!!! where would we be without our parents helping and suppoting every minute of our lives????????

Answer 8

some parents are panicky and its better to discuss things out with children in friendly manner!

Answer 9

i guess it depends on the parental style...i have a very close relationship with my daughters and they consider me as their best friend....my husband and i do give them chances to go out with their friends...when we refuse to let them go...we explain to them our reasons for not allowing them...unfortunately, my country is not the safest and a lot of kidnappings, happen...so i tell them that its not because we dont want you to go but its because we love you and we want you to be safe that's why we prevent you from going out sometimes....I dont invade my kids privacy...i respect them as a person....fortunate for me, because of our closeness...they tell me about the things that happen to them both good and bad...they even tell me about their crushes and we talk about them....

i guess like any kind of relationship, the important thing is to have good communication links with your kids...talk to them about everything, respect them and they respect you back....i think its better for them to discuss some things with you (like sex and drugs) than to discuss them with their friends...at least you know what your kids are into and you'd be able to guide them in the right path...

Answer 10

give them freedom but dont let them do anything they want