saw changes between 16 n 18, then one night i had a bad feeling,found her in the mid of the road, wasted, i had no clue she was upset to this pt over boy, then she just left me and hated me and cut me out of her life,in the past she said,"im not the person u think i am" and told me sometimes she sees people out of the corner of her eyes and no oneis there, shes been gone 4 months and im still trying, two days ago i went to her work and huged her, told her i loved her no matter what, we texted for a day, then last night she text that she cant remember what her father looked like (died) and is having nightmares, when i text to ask her about the dreams, she disappeared, no response, 1/2 hr later angry and said, "youre weird, what do you think could hapen to me in a frame of 5 min..then, "in going to bed...bye" i feel like im going insane,,once she wrote on her away mess, " im so glad to be away from my psycho mom...rest in peace dad." she hardly knew dad and we were so close any ideas?
2007-10-22 06:21:20 · 3 answers · asked by red_hawkup1 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Great life? No one in the united states has a great life, oooo you think because we can eat, drink and get jobs that its a great life! Oooo ok, still NO! We don't. This family situation in its self shows that. Money means nothing to emotional stability, which it sounds like this girl lacked, that doesn't make for a great life. With that said, its NO DUH, that she's anger, moved in with her bf and has a personality disorder, its natural, it should of happened. So don't be surprised, the only fix, her...... just like the frist answeror said, you can't change a person who doesn't want to, WILL is EXTREMELY important, becuase if she had the will to change she would. So if you can breck into that psyche and find a way to have her will herself to do better, then you might beable to do something, but she would have to be WILLING to let you in. So no will, no way....
2007-10-25 03:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
existence modifications after 18 because you be taught a thank you to be greater mature and you recognize you have alot of customary jobs previous to you. After severe college you may ask your self what am i going to do with my existence because you have been used to constantly being at college yet you will determine that out whilst college starts off. Your mothers and dads basically love and look once you yet they ought to realize you at the instant are a youthful ladies and you ought to make your very own selections even nonetheless you fee their comments. confident you're able to have your united statesand downs yet that's what's going to make you greater perfect. in case you moved away confident your mothers and dads will probable be unhappy that their as quickly as little lady is now shifting out and commencing with a sparkling existence... yet they ought to understand which you will nevertheless love them and could constantly bypass to them and which you attempt to do the basically right for your self.
2017-01-04 07:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by bunkley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is into the drug scene. If she wants help she will get it, but you can't make her quit if she is doing it. You can see about having her admitted to a drug rehab, and get her help, but when she gets out she'll do it again. She has to want to quit, and most of the people don't think they have a problem, so they don't get help until they hit rock bottom .
2007-10-22 07:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋