maybe around ten years old or little older, I've hear many compliments from my parent's friends and people that i'm pretty. Not a lot on day-to-day basis but it would have been something to remember. anyways, then i get become obsessed with apperance, maybe even now i still am, but the point is, i get many people stare at me, or look at me a lot (from the opposite sex), i never got approached by a guy, or being on a date, or had a boyfriend. sometimes i feel like they are just intimidated, but then truthfully, I'm really not that pretty. just above average. what are some factors that make people stare at you or look at you a lot? see, i can only explain this because i'm attractive, because it's not like i dress weird or anything and i'm pretty shy and quiet in school. am i just unapproachable? obviously, i just don't understand why so many men look and stare at. it's almost like everytime i meet a guy, i expect soon or later, they would stare at me a lot. thanks.
2007-10-22 05:49:01 · 30 answers · asked by meilingqian89 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
now that i'm in college, i talk to many guys. which is really a big change because i only had friends that are female in high school. anyways, somehow i don't feel so many people stare at me like before. just my math teacher. maybe cause i don't have classes with the same people everytime since it's a huge school. i also don't feel that pretty anymore. i think i'm getting more confident and approachable in a way. If i put a picture, it'd be a picture of a normal girl really. i don't think i'm a beautiful woman. i wish i was.
2007-10-22 06:04:05 · update #1
Yay two points!
2007-10-22 05:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by Pvt. Joker 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Get Over Your Self .. I Know People Can Say Theyre Pretty But Your Making Out Like Your Americas Next Top Model Or Something Talk About Obsessed .. You Need A Dovctor Love ..?!
2007-10-22 13:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, with out a picture its hard to tell, but chances are you are beautiful and people notice that. You should not get obsessed with apperances as you could learn alot from just about anyone. However, a mix of weird and pretty is good... keep it up, be a good person and you will find a man that will love you for who you are, not what you look like. Good luck.
2007-10-22 12:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by shadowsthathunt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think pretty much everyone gets looked at by people of the opposite sex on a pretty much regular basis. i think i'm well below average looking and I still get looked and stared at. maybe you have one of those faces that remind people of someone, maybe you're a bit unusual, maybe you're looking at those people rather than them looking at you perhaps because you're expecting them to be looking at you, maybe you are well above average looking, maybe you're checking to see who's looking at you- you know how once you notice something you see it or hear it or smell it or whatever all the time? there's loads of reasons why you feel people look at you a lot. as to why you never seem to get a man, i hate to sound harsh but there's few things more off-putting than self-obsession and maybe that's the answer to both these issues?
2007-10-22 13:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by greenbean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask a whole bunch of people if other people stare at you because you're stunning and say you MAY be obsessed with your appearance? Get a grip. You probably gawp at men so much to see if they are staring at you that they wonder what is wrong with you.
What a ridiculous question from a totally conceited person.
2007-10-22 12:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. okay babe most every girl gets compliments about being pretty (even the one's you might think are ugly) lol. Because it's a typical compliment for a girl to be given especially when they are young. But really we will be told this through out our whole lives.
My thoughts are that you are of course a beautiful girl, but you need to RELAX a whole lot! Believe it or not, and I'm afraid you won't.... there is much more to life than the way you look. So of the most unattractive folks have the most amazing lives because they do not feel the pressure to worry about these things and are free to let their personalities shine through.
I suggest you try going out of the house with out make up on and wiht your hair pulled back someday. I used to be obssessed with my looks and I slowly got myself used to not having to think about myself so much if I just chill out and not wear makeup one time a week even. It's VERy liberating :)
2007-10-22 12:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by cuteness 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is because you are beautifully weird!
J/K, you are probably indeed so beautiful that you might seem unapproachable by insecure boys/men. You can change that by being outgoing and friendly, then watch them flock to you. Just don't let the whole looks thing go to your head because if you start thinking you're "all that" then you will drive them away. I hope that isn't happening already. Good luck.
2007-10-22 12:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're shy and quiet thats probably why that is. its always really hard to approach someone that way because you never know how they will respond.
and maybe you're still kinda young too? because if you're like 16+ im pretty sure by now someone would have approached you. some men are intimidated by beautiful girls, but not every last one you see. i would assume atleast one guy would have the nuts to say something to you by now ??
2007-10-22 13:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol maybe you are beautiful and guys get intimadated.but you can do things to help this talk to guys yo u like and about sport
and cars that should make you more approach able.you could smile back at them when they look at you a smile make the world go around. or you could approch them we like that lots!!!!!
but the main things is to just have a bit of confidence in ur self
and you should be alright =) hope you find a happines .
good luck .chanemister out
2007-10-22 12:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is very intimidating asking a girl out. Maybe it's the way you carry yourself you might come off as a b@#$, or stuck up or something. Sometimes I look at a girl and know she's to good for me, or know she will turn me down. Do you smile a lot. Are you always surrounded by friends, because I H8 approaching girls who are never by themselves
2007-10-22 12:54:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I get a lot of looks from other men and I know it's because they think I am pretty. I have got appraoched several times though. Prolly like 10 times. I think it's because they think you are pretty. =) But yeah post a picture girly!
2007-10-22 13:11:27 · answer #11 · answered by Random 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋