My ex-boyfriend cautioned me about that. I'm pretty scared to get pregnant but I do want kids. Also, I heard that pregnancy is miserable, & you're always either sick or in pain or feeling discomfort & that you never feel normal.
I have a history of strokes & I was told that I can't use any other birth control besides condoms, & my twin sister just recently had 2 strokes & so did my mom. Many people think I might stroke out again if I get pregnant & I might die from childbirth & stroke out. I also heard that stress & anxiety would cause me to be more likely to stroke out again. I have anxiety & depressive disorders & get highly stressed out all the time.
2007-10-22 05:27:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Modern medicine has greatly reduced the mortality rate of healthy women during childbirth, so women today don't have as much to fear. Even high risk pregnancies have better outcomes in today's world.
However, your situation is not typical. Your medical condition should be discussed with a specialist, as well as, an obstetrician to determine what would be best for you.
Also, your psychological disorders should be controled before ever deciding to have children. Being pregnant will make big changes in your life, this includes mood swings, and anxiety and depression can worsen. Also, the stresses (emotional and physical) pregnancy puts on your body can only exasperate your medical conditions.
I wish you the best.
2007-10-22 05:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age, it's very UNlikely, thanks to medical advances. Even with your condition, your doctor will be able to help you formulate a birth plan that is safer for you. You would also be monitored very carefully, and intervention would be immediate at the first sign of a complication. It is in your best interest to talk to a medical professional before you become pregnant to discuss your history of stroke and your anxiety. If you take any medications for these conditions, they need to be evaluated as they may not be safe to take during pregnancy.
Pregnancy is not all misery. Yes, there are things about it that are uncomfortable, gross, and painful. Not all women respond to it the same way, and everyone has a different experience. Many women sail through without a care in the world and never really feel any different. Don't make judgments based on other people's experiences...just live your own. Good luck to you.
2007-10-22 05:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by ♀B♀S♀ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best thing for you to do based on yours and your family medical history is to talk to your doctor. he/she is the ONLY one who can tell you the real risks about it. women dying from giving birth is VERY rare these days because of technology
second of all pregnancy is NOT always miserable. a lot of women milk it and make is seem awful cuz they want attention. it not like what you see on TV, yes some women have it rough, but that can do with the way they take care of themselves before pregnancy, and especially during their pregnancy.
my first pregnancy was a piece of cake, i was shocked on how great i felt the whole 9 months. this pregnancy is a little tougher, i was told is probably would be. yes i get tired more and i am starting to feel uncomfortable, but it is not that bad where i would never want to be pregnant again. not all women get sick, i didnt thru either pregnancy. and most days i feel normal.
so no matter how bad some women say it is, a lot of women have it easy and its al worth it.
2007-10-22 05:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by LuckyMama06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statistically speaking every woman has a 1.5% chance of dying during childbirth. Most are due to complications that the woman is aware of pre-labor & delivery.
However, with your medical issues/history... You need to consult a doctor before you get pregnant. Adoption or a surrogate may be a better alternative for you. Whatever you do, be careful & listen to your doctor. Good luck.
2007-10-22 05:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by Christine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should definately get advice from a trained Doctor or doctors. I know personally my 3 pregnancies were great. No problems, no worries. I believe it's something like 1% of women have serious difficulties when delivering. Find a experienced Medical OB/GYN doctor, one who you understand and ask around about what you have as far as strokes. Doctors should give you the best advice. Sounds like your boyfriend just wants to scare you away from getting pregnant!!
2007-10-22 05:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by cora m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi. Do you have APS/ Sticky blood/ Hughe's Syndrome?
I do (can't use birth control; I'm at very high risk for clots) and just found out last summer.... AFTER having a beautiful baby boy. Other than the preeclampsia, I didn't have any major pregnancy problems. I'm currently pregnant w/ #2.
I would find a good doctor and talk to him/ her about this.
2007-10-22 05:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by Nina Lee 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a smaller rate now because of the things we have to save a women life during child birth back in the 40 50 and 60 the rate was higher and of course the 1800
2016-04-09 21:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should speak to your doctor before you get pregnant.If the risks are too high,you can always adopt. There are so many children out there that need parents and a home. I'm sure you will do the best for you . Pregnancy can be horrible at times it's painful to have natural and c-sections , I have had both. Good luck to you.
2007-10-22 05:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by Ana C pisces1976 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The chances grow higher if you are younger.
The female body is generally not mature enough to nurture a forming foetus, a recent research group has established.
I think it is a case of a mature mind, but not the body. My opinion only.
With your health issues, I believe you will need to discuss this matter with your health provider.
2007-10-22 07:00:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a medical history in your family from family members having problems wit their pregnancies. Go by your doctor's advise. You sound so young, why worry about getting pregnant? Take care of yourself!
2007-10-22 05:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋