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I've been in love with him for 4yrs in the begining the sex was fun and great now i find my self not wanting it as much any more. he wants it all the time but i dont. i love him and want to be with him i just dont want to have sex that much any more and he's getting flustrated with me and i just dont want it that much any more but find my self daydreaming sex with other guys i would like to have sex with,so i ask what do you think this mean when i do really still love him and want to be with him just not sexually all the time and were in a relationship deep? help me please!

2007-10-22 05:03:19 · 4 answers · asked by another sass 2 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Men feel that they are loved by the act of physical love making. Women feel that they are loved by the state of being in love. Then she moves to the physical part. I think you have move into another level of your relationship from the lust - to - love stage. He needs to start stimulating you other way...dating again, talking, trips, etc.

2007-10-22 05:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

only because you know he wants sex that much...and he's telling you and he's frustrating, maybe that's why...
i've been through a stage where i didn't even want my bf to touch me i was disguted by him touching me, but i was thinking about other guys though., i do love my bf, but if like mine...he won't give me attention, if he does, it's only to have sex with me, that's all so that sucks sometimes!
Maybe your bf is not attractive to you anymore, which could be why you don't want sex but want to be with him for what he's giving you...love, respect....ect...
There is the part where the girl doesn't know if she's still in love with the guy so doesn't want to have sex, i've benn through that, but everything is good now!
Good luck!

2007-10-22 12:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

why don't your show your guy this question and let him read the answer's. At least then he will know that you are apprehensive about his continual lust for you is causing you to ask questions, about your sex life.

2007-10-22 12:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by robert x 7 · 0 0

Hormones.... You can't help it .. nor can he till you learn to read them and correct them... It's as natural not to want it sometimes as it is for him to want it all the time. Stay away from opportunity when you don't want it. Live seperate and meet up at public places

2007-10-22 12:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by Walker L 3 · 0 1

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