Though I did my best and it's been two years since I was reviewing for this board still I failed. Now i want to die. Pls help me. i'm really down. My relatives are expecting a lot. i dont know how to tell them. HELP.
2007-10-22 04:37:37 · 12 answers · asked by GirL next door 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
it's a for a certified public accountant exam here in the phils. very difficult.
2007-10-22 04:56:30 · update #1
hey baby , dont do it , life is full of adventures and excitement ,do you want to miss out on that ? you were born for a purpose , do you know whre you will be after you die , wats the point of going someplace when you dont know whats going to happen to you , every living being in this universe has a high point and a low point in the life but thats your karma if you try to get rid of it by killing yourself then you will encounter it in your next life you can never runaway from your karma , you need to face them and get rid of them , try to maintain your calm in every situation wether its good or bad dont get too excited over temporary materialistic pains and pleasures , nothing is forever ,except your soul , keep working on the good deeds and minimize the bad deeds keep you calm in all situations , thats your purpose as a human being to make your soul reach salvation , eternity or nirvana whatever you call it .
since you have already failed its done so i am guessing that you are afraid of facing your relatives and family members , keep your calm in this situation and go through it let things happen and dont let them get over your mind ,be strong and be patient ,remember nothing is forever except your soul ,
may peace be with you
2007-10-22 05:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to Freud, consciousness is only the tip of a vast iceberg. Who knows what strange repressions are interfering with your efforts.
There is only one reason for you to have failed the exam. At some level of consciousness you didn't want the job. If you had succeeded you would be even more depressed and not understand why. Don't feel bad. Everybody has issues.
As for your relatives, if that issue is really important in the Phillipines I feel sorry for you, and I don't know whay to say. If you were an American I would tell you to get laid and everything would be OK. Please don't take things so seriously. You will be happier in the long run with a job that's fun for you.
2007-10-22 05:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by larry L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything seems much more important than it actually is. I'm not just saying that, I honestly believe it with all my heart.
Friends and family should accept us for who we are NOW.
Not who we will become or who they want us to grow up to be.
If people can't accept you for who you are already then it's THEIR problem.
Don't look to others to determine who you are.
Failing an exam means you failed an exam.
THAT'S ALL.
I don't think you should be happy about failing but I don't think it's something worth beating yourself up over.
I strongly recommend you listen or read Eckhart Tolle's "The Power of Now" or "A New Earth". Look past the spirituality stuff. You can learn A LOT from it.
2007-10-22 05:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by Chris H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know people who have done the same thing, I know one right now deciding next step, its not the end of the world, if this is what you really want to do then try to find a job being involved in it to keep pounding it into your brain, if it is your passion, be sure this is what you want, sometimes relatives really just mean to help you, they will understand I promise, if they love you they will, if they don't love you it doesn't matter anyway. Good luck and just keep studying if this is what you want, never give up on a dream or passion till you are successfull. Just be sure its worth the effort.
2007-10-26 14:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by victor 7707 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure which boards you are talking about (law, medicine?) but the only thing suicide will accomplish is make it impossible for you to take them in the future and pass. It will also make all your friends and relatives feel guilty because they will think there was something they could have done to stop you. All you can do to tell them is say honestly, "I worked really hard but I failed again. I will keep trying till I pass." Maybe instead of reviewing the material again, you should go to one of those counseling centers that helps you learn to take tests period, whatever the subject. You may have severe test anxiety that they can help you overcome.
2007-10-22 04:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by mommanuke 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, where would we be if every time someone failed they gave up? No electricity, no computers no indoor plumbing.... Never give up. You will pass, maybe its just not the right time.. Not everyone gets it right the first few times. I didn't, but finally did. And that o.k. Tell your relatives you did your best and you'll do better next time. You'll ace it next time, I'll bet you. Tell them you're giving them another year to save up money for the big congradulation party you want. Remember, It really is o.k. You may be sad, but you have alot to offer, don't blow it over the test.
2007-10-22 05:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let this keep bringing you down. My uncle failed his boards twice before he passed. You just have to keep trying. Be honest with your family and tell them you're having some trouble with your boards. Hopefully you have a supporting family that will help you as much as they can. But it's ultimately up to you to study and pass. You can do it if you really put your mind to it.
Good luck.
2007-10-22 04:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by el Rocky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get yourself down over it. You just need to come up with a new way to study. Try other techniques, tape recording yourself asking questions and answering it, write the questions is several different forms so you can recognize it if they do that on the test. If you want this bad enough, you will get it, but make sure it is you who really wants it, not your relatives.
2007-10-22 04:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by prima ballerina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to change your study methods. But besides that don't focus on what others expect of you. This is your life and be happy in what you do in it. Your talking to someone who has tried the easy way out more than once. I think if you change the way you study and shut the outside world out and focus on you, you'll be fine.
2007-10-22 04:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by taye7669 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter. Just try again. I failed a few times in school but now very happy. Just work on failures and then step to success
2007-10-22 04:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋