I've had sex with some one and we're both under age what should i do?

Question

i'm a girl and dont know what to do should i tell someone?

Answer 1

Is there any reason for telling anyone. Could you be pregnant? Did you use protection? If you have any health worries at all then go to your Doctor. He will advise you what to do and MUST keep it secret. If you tell anyone about it and there is no real reason to then the boy could get in trouble with the Police. You can't undo what you've done so in the future don't do it again. Good luck!

Answer 2

Hi, don't do it again is the ideal answer.... you have to know that if you have sex then you can pick up sorts of diseases if you dint use protection. How would you feel if you got pregnant ? Gutted? Well that is the risk you take even if you use contraception,there is always a tiny risk it could fail. I would stop having sex, boys will respect you more for it,no matter what they say, and you will have more respect for yourself. If you are an average teenager you will think that it will not happen to you, but just look at some of the questions on this site. If you really want to have sex then you should go to your local GP, you can talk to him in confidence . If you go on the pill in the future still use a condom, make sure you have one with you , this will cut down the risk of you catching something nasty. I hope that this helps you . There are lots of places where you can go to talk to somebody, like the family planning clinic. Take care.

Answer 3

Hiya, you dont say how old you are, just under age, you both knew this was wrong, but I imagine emotions ran away with you, I hope it was protected sex, that means he wore a condom, if not, you must, tell an adult you trust, as you could have a certain tablet that could stop you becoming pregnant, I know its scarey, but your future health is vital, you have school etc, and a life to look forward too, this will sound crazy but dont, do it again until you are old enough, your b.friend can get into very serious trouble, and so can you, it is against the law, both of you must be 16, ok. its happened, you cant alter it, you both musnt let it happen again, do speak to an adult you trust, do get that tablet quick, I am not even sure if you are old enough for it, so check this out please. Good luck and best wishes Janxx

Answer 4

First off stop beating yourself up. "Let he with no sin cast the first stone" so people here need to lay off you. You are not a bad person, you just made a bad choice. Secondly you need to go to the GP to make sure you are not pregnant and to get tested for aids and other std's. Yes AIDS is still out there people!
Thirdly try not to repeat mistakes. Learn from them! Sex is only good when it is between two consenting ADULTS who at the very least have a deep and mutual respect for each other based on a variety of factors. It is not something to do because you are bored or because it feels good. Try getting a hobby or taking up a sport to feel good instead.
Fourth and lastly - yes you should tell someone, namely your parents or mom who can help guide you and give you the support you will need to deal with what you have done. She will understand, yes she might not be happy, but eventually she will understand.

Answer 5

Go talk to your mum or a teacher to make sure you are ok. What you have done is a silly mistake that a lot of people do because they think they are missing out on something or that there is so much hype about it, it's got to be good. The thing is, it comes with a lot of responsibility, which is why only adults do it generally. I'm sure you are not ready emotionally or physically for this type of relationship and you need to find someone you can confide in that you trust. Sex is brilliant in it's proper place, in a loving safe relationship and as you have discovered, that isn't what you just had and it's bothering you.
It's not the end of the world but for your peace of mind, yes, talk to someone. You can mail me if you need to x

Answer 6

Why would you want to tell someone? The first time I had sex was with an 18 year old (he is now my husband) but I certainly didn't tell anyone other than my friends. My friends were all under the consent age when they started having sex, usually with people their own age. No one ever told the adults. As long as your careful about it there should be no reason to tell others.

Answer 7

What you are having sex for I dont know, you are way to young. But as you have, I do hope you used protection, if you never, then go straight away to the health centre and get the monring after pill, it should be taken no longer than 72 hours after having intercourse (sex). Then you should book yourself in for a sexual health test, cause you might of caught something. Dont you have parents who you can talk to, or an aunty or someone. What on earth possessed you to have sex underage? You must have better things to do at your age? Respect your self, and the boy should respect himself and you. If you are worried, talk to you parents, a teacher, your doctor, aunty, cousin etc...

Answer 8

For you to be asking this question your are clearly not ready for sex. You do not need to tell anyone you have had sex unless you were forced into it. It would be better if you waited a bit longer before having sex again, and when you are ready make sure you use some form of protection.

Answer 9

Go to the dr's or walk in clinic and get urself a "morning after pill" and get urself checked out by a doctor who will do all this in complete confidence. U r 2 young to be taking risks like this and r trying to grow up to quickly. Enjoy being ur age and don't do stuff that isn't right for u. Believe me life comes along too soon and hits u with responsiblity so enjoy being a kid and leave off that stuff till ur old enough to know what u r doing hon.

Answer 10

What do you need to talk to them about? Birth control? The morning after pill? Or do you fell that you have made a mistake?
If i was desperate to talk to someone, I would choose a trusted relative who would keep my secret and advise me on what to do next.
If you're not happy about the siuation and wished you had neve done it, perhaps the other person feels the same way to. Can you talk to them?
And if you are now gong to be having sex regularly, you need to be fully aware of all th risks taht you are opening yourself up to and ensure you are well protected.