There's this girl in my school thats 2 years below me. She's extremely intelligent,amazing at sport,and incredibly pretty... She also seems to be very modest when it comes to all three of these and she's an awesome person!
Because she's younger than me, I dont have any classes with her, and only see her maybe once a day at school. She always stops to give me a hug and have a chat and from only this I developed a small crush on her :)
I dont make it obvious AT ALL, and she seems to be the one that flirts(physical contact and eye contact). I didn't think anything would ever happen, because we don't hang out with the same people, but she asked me for my number today.
I am sooo incredibly confused, and even though I've never heard of her having something with another girl, she flirts with me soooo much! I think she probably knows Im bi,which means she's not freaked out by it, but is there something more here?Do the looks and smiles,the long hugs and affection mean something from her side?
2007-10-22 03:52:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Oh yea, she also says things like "Wow, Candice! I've bumped into you so many times today that I'm thinking you might be into me or something" **with a wink** The problem is even though she's just kidding, its another sign to add to the list.
2007-10-22 04:03:57 · update #1
I used to be charming... But somehow this girl sucked out all my powers... :)
2007-10-22 05:41:31 · update #2
I think its in her personality. I mean, being friendly and all. She's like asking you for your number because she thinks you might be a great addition to the list of her friends. Maybe you are expecting something more that is why you notice every little details like the looks, smiles and hugs.
Advice... try to observe how she interacts with other people. If she's giving the same looks, smiles and hugs to everybody... well, she's just being friendly.
2007-10-22 04:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by xine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she likes you a lot. I don't think she would be giving you all of this positive attention if she didn't like you. Usually people don't behave this way with platonic friends. Even though you've "heard" she has another girl, she really might not. If you really like her too, you should go with the flow and see what happens next!!! You never know, you might fall in love and live happily ever after!!! woo!
2007-10-22 10:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by The Nothing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never know unless you explore it further, assuming you both are old enough to do so, of course. Call her, or ask her to meet you for coffee, shopping, a walk on the beach, or whatever. If it's to be, it will happen. If not, you got to spend a pleasant afternoon with a friendly person. What's not to like with that?
2007-10-22 10:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she winks at you and says that you might have a crush on her..my gut feeling says to me she is flirting with you!..You should call her sometime....go for coffee....and during a conversation reach out and touch her hand or leg....you will know when she doesnt pull away...
2007-10-22 12:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by jennaveevee25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No kidding. Did you give her your number? Get hers and begin talking to her, find out what she is really like, before you say or do anything. I mean the situation can definately take a turn for the worse, especially if you don't proceed carefully.
2007-10-22 11:02:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
, Candice! I've bumped into you so many times today that I'm thinking you might be into me or something" **with a wink**
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LOL, maybe shes playing with you or she really is flirting. But she is being foward. Go with the flow
2007-10-22 14:05:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly they do or maybe they don't and she just needs a friend. Anyway invite her out and see how it goes. Don't be all over her just casual and let her make the first move. It would be fun if she did but do not be disapointed if she doesnt and just wants to be friends.
2007-10-22 10:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by kevin h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it could be both. she could just naturally be a touchy feely type person or she could totally desire an erotic hookup with you. if I were you i'd explore it further and see what happens wink wink
2007-10-22 11:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by sexynsweet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duh hun she likes you.and for some odd reason i think u like her too. but u just donr want to admit it.why dont u ask her and and talk to ehr mom.or even have her call you.dont be scared.i mean ur bi so theres no problem right? if u like her ,u like her.
2007-10-22 12:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by LaShar.Baybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erm.. probably not. she maybe sees u as a good friend.
maybe ask her one day to check, if she knows ur bi, ask her if she would like to go to a gay club.... and see her action....
2007-10-22 10:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by Trisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋