2007-10-22 03:51:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
it depends if you are excepting his behavior. if u don't mind then let it be. if u want to be more active try talking to him and see if u can find out why. if you don't like the answer or he refuses to tell u then leave or ask him to leave.
my male friend became inactive and i accepted it. now we r seperated and r neighbors we r still not active w/anyone.
we have the highest AIDS count per captia in USA.
2007-10-22 04:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay. Honey you are at least over 30..and he is faithful..do you know how hard that is to find? I would talk to him...obviously seducing him wont work at this point becuase SOMETHING you did in the past 10 years would have turned him on. He might have ED and just be ashamed to admit it. You need to get him to open up..as to why he does not want sex with you...and if he wont, then get some on the side.
2007-10-22 10:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all, communicate, get couples counseling, and if that doesn't resolve things, you have a choice.
1) love him, but meet your sexual needs elsewhere. Maybe with another married person, in the same boat.
2) DTMFA. You have needs, and if he wants zero, and you want 10, the answer is 5. If he won't meet you halfway, you're NOT IN A loving relationship.
This situation recalls Samantha's relationship with Derwood..er, Darrin on Bewitched. He refused to allow her to express her witch nature, just because it made him uncomfortable. Eventually, in the 3rd season, Serrina showed up, the black haired cousin. She was the expression of Sam's pent up witch powers (much like your sexuality) because she could not be contained.
2007-10-22 11:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by tkdeity 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it sounds like he has a problem and you are suffering for it. Why would you stay if he is not giving you what you need. Faithful or not, you have needs also. The problem may not be you at all. It may be him. Dont waste another 10 years. Get moving.
2007-10-22 10:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by redheadedgramma831 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should find other ways to occupy your time. You should enrich your life by exploring and learning new things. Do those things you keep putting off like seeing the world, learning how to paint or visiting relatives who live far away.
2007-10-22 12:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by germaine_87313 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you don't know if he's been faithful unless you sit in his back pocket. That is unusual behavior, for sure. I would suspect he is gay. Even if he were straight and sleeping around, he would have managed to be with you, too.
Red flag alert, sorry to say...
2007-10-22 10:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave. Life's too short for that....unless there's some medical reason and he's embarrassed. At any rate I'd have a long talk with him about it.
2007-10-22 10:55:40 · answer #7 · answered by Steph 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not interested in a platonic relationship in the house. I have lots of those out in the world.
2007-10-22 11:19:05 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Midnightbully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay. sex is not the main thing im after in a relationship, and definitely not the everything. unless it is causing me emotional distress to which i would try to understand why this is so. at least, at this stage, sex is of least concern to me. but that's just me
2007-10-22 11:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay (And i love sex)why is he rejecting do you know?
2007-10-22 10:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by Amberle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋