have been off/on for 6 years with my boyfriend...we've never lived together, he has his own home...he has always talked of us having a baby together...well i'm pregnant...i've lost my job and have 2 kids already, have had to apply for income support...benefits agency say the law is you cant have a boyfriends sleep over and claim a benefit...and have sent me CSA papers as i dont live with the father of baby...heres where i need the help....he used to stay over about half the week when i was working....ive had to stop that....he wants to continue says 'no one will find out'....doesnt wash with me, have stuck to what the benefits agency said...he also doesnt want me to tell the CSA that i know where he lives...says he will sort me out just between the 2 of us...again doesnt wash with me...i'm not teling lies to either agency....i never even knew he had this side to him...i'm shocked,quite distressed and upset about his attitude..this isnt how babies are brought into the world..any advice?
2007-10-22
02:41:56
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littlemisssunshine
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Politics & Government
➔ Law & Ethics