I've never been in a relationship. 21 yrs old guy. But from what I've read, heard and seen about cheating. It seems so FOUL!For alot of people who have affairs these days.Its like they're playing God with their relationship.They're dangling their spouse,partner,marraige,relationship.By a string.And you'll cut it whenever you please.Its a sick game almost for many.People have gotten so bold and callous towards the people they claim to love.As a decent human being how do you do that?Its so degrading towars the 3rd party being played for a fool.Worth nothing.But in particular, in todays society. There is just such a bold and proud quality to cheating now.Its like an accomplishment to many.Entitlement almost. Its so SINISTER! Once that 3rd party stops providing you instant-grat, they mean nothing?deserve no respect?Decency? I've never really thought about util societys "openess" today. I just don't get how something like "love" can turn into such hell and misery.
Cheating hurts?
2007-10-22 01:34:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
AND NO! I HAVE NOT GONE THROUGH ANY KIND OF TRAMATIC EXPERIENCE IN MY LIFE. ITS JUST FROM I GET FROM SOCIETY.
2007-10-22 01:35:52 · update #1
The saying "love hurts" is true. The only way to learn about people is to meet people.I guess it is like when you buy a bag of apples.Some are shiny,red and perfect in every way .When you bite into it ,it is sweet. .Some are shiny red but have a small bruise.You can cut away the bruised part and then you bite into it and it is still sweet.Sometimes one apple has gone bad and no amount of cutting can remove the bad parts.These are all apples but all so different.My point is you will meet a variety of people in your life.Most are good people, some will have some bad things in their life but they are still good people overall.Lastly there are those people who are just rotten to the core.You will meet someone one day who you may think is perfect for you but she may not feel the same way.It will hurt and break your heart.You will not stop looking for someone because of it.Love has to be mutual.Your Ms.Right will come along and the rest will be history.Just for the record, the "perfect apple" can be sometimes be a disappointment when you bite into it.It might be a tart cooking apple. There is a wide variety of apples and they are all different.It takes trial and error to find the apple of your eye.
2007-10-22 03:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by gussie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell something..............There is no 1 in this entire universe who could just tell a story like that...
Unless you gone through all that..
You sound so angry and vengefull.
But the question is that if youhave all the info on those bad experiences ..why ask questions about it...
Let me tell you the real story...you just afraid to get hurt again and want are seeking for help on moving on with your life and you want to know what we would think about your situation.
And my dear friend ..there is just no need for you to be ashamed...every woman has to go thruogh all of that at some point..
So just seek for counselling and see what turns out..
Gudluck...........
2007-10-22 08:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by lady"P" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that many people are don't care about how it affects the children which may be in both sides, the unsuspecting spouses,in-laws!
All are affected by a cheating spouse!
I don't think all of them get away with it 100%,they also ending paying a price for the devestation they cause!
2007-10-22 08:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by need2know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,it really hurts though we didn't experience such things.But the answere is so simple to those who understands."If they don't fear GOD, means they don't care doing filthy and unreasonable acts,like cheating there partners". Such manners are abominable to GOD. They seem not aware of what they're doing but GOD do. In some sayings'...WHATEVER YOU SOW, YOU REAP..
2007-10-22 08:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by lovelyrose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it hurts and hurts so bad. Spare yourself then and others too by being honest and truthful. This may be too small a contribution to change society but somehow change has to start somewhere. Thank you for caring enough. I believe in you.
2007-10-22 08:42:45 · answer #5 · answered by Rhythm of the Falling Rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my ex husband cheated on me. I thought he was the one since we both had communicated about our past relationships with cheaters and how we did not want that ever again. But, some people cannot resist temptation. It hurts.And, it is hard to move on, but we have no other choice.
2007-10-22 08:50:22 · answer #6 · answered by Harley Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree 100%! i have been cheated on by everyone of my serious boyfriends and it really does hurt! i got to the point where i dont even want a relationship because i feel that every guy does cheat! "relationships" these days are a joke!
2007-10-22 08:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't think about those things and hope for the best.
2007-10-22 08:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by tolu_thegame10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAT WAS THE QUESTION HERE??? THIS ISNT AN OPINION SITE! PS how many times you going to state this opinion of yours
2007-10-22 08:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by Kimberly S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋